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发表于2024-08-03
How to Raise an Adult pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
too much facts, history, blah....... i want solution. what works? how to execute? quit babbling
評分too much facts, history, blah....... i want solution. what works? how to execute? quit babbling
評分兩部分:一部分批評直升機傢長,後一部分指齣應該怎麼做。可操作性強,例子豐富。
評分隻讀目錄就行瞭。
評分我們為孩子所做的一切都是在為瞭他們離開我們的那天做準備。我們應該幫助他們適應社會,而不是將他們與社會隔離。不過說得輕鬆,在孩子的安全風險麵前,哪個傢長又真的能做到放手? 孩子最重要的品質是grit堅毅和麵對挫摺的自我修復力。至於他的考試成績如何,能進什麼學校,這些都是次要的。
前斯坦福招生主任写的“如何养育成人”(意为:如何教养孩子让他们真正长大成人)一书。前半本絮絮叨叨、啰啰嗦嗦,基本在说一个事:不能over-parenting呀不能over-parenting。她号召家长、孩子们不要只紧盯那么有限的几个名校、而是全面的考量孩子的特点、着眼长期可持续发展...
評分文 / 董小琳 一群妈妈们凑到一起,离不开孩子的吃喝拉撒……这些事情。 “每天都端着水求着他喝。吃饭也不让人省心,喂一口跑了,还得追着喂……” “我也不想呀。但是不追着喂,孩子万一食水不周,生病了,怎么办?” 都知道这样不好,但又似乎没有办法改变。 “我婆婆说,她...
評分 評分这是一本很有名的书,近几年作者到处演讲,导致它更有名了。 事实上,我在看过这本书之前就引用过它“清单童年”的观点了,实在是因为作者的ted演讲影响太广了,从这个角度讲,演讲加上互联网,真的是放大你的影响力的,毕竟不会每个人都能静下心来看这么一本厚厚的书,但花几...
評分文 / 董小琳 一群妈妈们凑到一起,离不开孩子的吃喝拉撒……这些事情。 “每天都端着水求着他喝。吃饭也不让人省心,喂一口跑了,还得追着喂……” “我也不想呀。但是不追着喂,孩子万一食水不周,生病了,怎么办?” 都知道这样不好,但又似乎没有办法改变。 “我婆婆说,她...
How to Raise an Adult pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024