 
			 
				A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
强烈推荐这本书,尤其是给有孩子的父母来读。也热切的希望老师们能来读一读。 很有意思,这本书在微信读书上首先跳出的评价都很激烈,说这是一本烂书。我猜,可能是冲击到了吧。 在行业中也有十年了,看到太多太多现在的孩子。记得一个印象非常深刻的画面:我在听课,老师在按...
评分#如何让孩子成年又成人#读后感 在谈到中国式养育问题的时候,美国父母常常被当作榜样,在一般人的印象中,美国式教育强调孩子的独立,美国父母对待孩子没有我们娇惯等等。看了这本书我才知道,同一个世界,同样的“????孩子”,全天下父母都差不多。并且,这本书还提出了切实可...
评分 评分 评分文 / 董小琳 一群妈妈们凑到一起,离不开孩子的吃喝拉撒……这些事情。 “每天都端着水求着他喝。吃饭也不让人省心,喂一口跑了,还得追着喂……” “我也不想呀。但是不追着喂,孩子万一食水不周,生病了,怎么办?” 都知道这样不好,但又似乎没有办法改变。 “我婆婆说,她...
只读目录就行了。
评分Audible
评分总结成一个词就是放手。说起来容易做起来难。
评分thought-orovoking
评分nothing unexpected. kids should do chores.
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