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发表于2025-01-10
How to Raise an Adult pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025
A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
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评分作者读了好多育儿书啊
评分两部分:一部分批评直升机家长,后一部分指出应该怎么做。可操作性强,例子丰富。
评分我们为孩子所做的一切都是在为了他们离开我们的那天做准备。我们应该帮助他们适应社会,而不是将他们与社会隔离。不过说得轻松,在孩子的安全风险面前,哪个家长又真的能做到放手? 孩子最重要的品质是grit坚毅和面对挫折的自我修复力。至于他的考试成绩如何,能进什么学校,这些都是次要的。
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1983年,美国《新闻周刊》发文《一大群“小皇帝”》,对中国实施计划生育后家庭教育情况进行了报道,特别指出“拜倒在孩子脚下的父母称孩子们是小皇帝,中国的报刊称他们是娇生惯养的孩子”。“小皇帝”一词由此风靡。1986年,报告文学《中国的“小皇帝”》对国内的独生子女教...
评分#如何让孩子成年又成人#读后感 在谈到中国式养育问题的时候,美国父母常常被当作榜样,在一般人的印象中,美国式教育强调孩子的独立,美国父母对待孩子没有我们娇惯等等。看了这本书我才知道,同一个世界,同样的“????孩子”,全天下父母都差不多。并且,这本书还提出了切实可...
评分强烈推荐这本书,尤其是给有孩子的父母来读。也热切的希望老师们能来读一读。 很有意思,这本书在微信读书上首先跳出的评价都很激烈,说这是一本烂书。我猜,可能是冲击到了吧。 在行业中也有十年了,看到太多太多现在的孩子。记得一个印象非常深刻的画面:我在听课,老师在按...
评分#如何让孩子成年又成人#读后感 在谈到中国式养育问题的时候,美国父母常常被当作榜样,在一般人的印象中,美国式教育强调孩子的独立,美国父母对待孩子没有我们娇惯等等。看了这本书我才知道,同一个世界,同样的“????孩子”,全天下父母都差不多。并且,这本书还提出了切实可...
How to Raise an Adult pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025