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发表于2025-01-05
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An entertaining and inspiring account of conquering his fear of rejection, offering a completely new perspective on how to turn a no into a yes.
Jia Jiang came to the United States with the dream of being the next Bill Gates. But despite early success in the corporate world, his first attempt to pursue his entrepreneurial dream ended in rejection. Jia was crushed, and spiraled into a period of deep self doubt. But he realized that his fear of rejection was a bigger obstacle than any single rejection would ever be, and he needed to find a way to cope with being told no without letting it destroy him. Thus was born his "100 days of rejection" experiment, during which he willfully sought rejection on a daily basis--from requesting a lesson in sales from a car salesman (no) to asking a flight attendant if he could make an announcement on the loud speaker (yes) to his famous request to get Krispy Kreme doughnuts in the shape of Olympic rings (yes, with a viral video to prove it).
Jia learned that even the most preposterous wish may be granted if you ask in the right way, and shares the secret of successful asking, how to pick targets, and how to tell when an initial no can be converted into something positive. But more important, he learned techniques for steeling himself against rejection and ways to develop his own confidence--a plan that can't be derailed by a single setback. Filled with great stories and valuable insight, Rejection Proof is a fun and thoughtful examination of how to overcome fear and dare to live more boldly.
JIA JIANG is founder of the popular blog and video series 100 Days of Rejection. His story has been covered by dozens of news outlets, including Bloomberg Businessweek, Yahoo News, the Huffington Post, Forbes, Inc.com, MTV, Gawker, the Daily Mail, Fox News, and CBS's The Jeff Probst Show. A native of Beijing, China, Jiang came to the U.S. as a teenager to pursue his dream of becoming an entrepreneur. Jiang holds an MBA from Duke University and a bachelor's degree in computer science from Brigham Young University.
浓浓一碗鸡汤。其实给两星有点过分,因为我其实从中受益良多。然而实在觉得买书没有什么必要,去看作者的Ted Talk就好(值得看的,尤其是我们这种不甘心的社恐)。
评分被拒絕所嘗試的點子是蠻有創意的,可是之後的反思很囉嗦,兩句話可以說完的寫成兩頁(所以去看他的ted talk就夠了,15min能get到精華了),其實總結起來就是多做&不要想太多。被拒絕一次那就真誠地多試幾次;同時你真的很難猜測別人拒絕的原因,所以也不要自己在那糾結瞎想,直接行動起來。另外把很多體驗經歷都強行歸入拒絕這點有些扯。
评分和我这两年的态度挺像的,想就去要就去做,不要怕拒绝。突然想到我也在Grote Markt 上随便叫人帮我系过鞋带,关键是别人还肯,而且教会我一种特别厉害的系法。回到书来,有些东西感觉几句话就能说完的,愣是写了几页,但是还是很佩服作者啊。
评分最有意思也最有启发的是作者讲述自己的经历,让我也跃跃欲试,导致有点兴奋反而无法很快入睡。后面摆名人例子、拔高上价值、以及帮助自己老婆找工作啥的,鸡汤味就有点重了。对于rejection的分析有理有据,提供的tips有很有帮助。
评分故事本身我很喜欢,对我很有帮助。阅读时一直有小学生作文的感觉,没有用的心理独白太多,不是很有意思的比喻,还有个人觉得没有想象力的不好笑的幽默。但是还是觉得作者很勇敢很棒
你的梦想比你所受的拒绝更大吗?如果是,也许你就该继续,而不是放弃。 TED超人气演讲原创作品!刷新7,000,000人的“被拒”观! 24个应对拒绝的实战策略 拒绝只是一个观点,它反映的不是你的问题。 拒绝是有价码的,如果被拒绝者被拒绝的次数足够多了,“不”最终转化成“是” ...
评分不久前的一个上班日早上,朋友在微信上推给我的TED演讲,我刚好还没有开始工作状态,于是点开看了看,15分钟左右的演讲,我深深的被触动了,一度热泪盈眶,马上就去YouTube上订阅了作者的视频,说到战胜自我,这个概念在非常年幼的时候听到过姐姐说,是非常难的事情,越长大越...
评分我觉得我要成事儿了。其实自己最大的问题就是害怕被拒绝,这次我觉得找到了解决方案。书已经买了,明天到,回头再翻墙看看视频。解决了这些问题之后我就要起飞了,火星见各位。因为害怕拒绝而错过很多事情,现在刚刚好,ready to fight。到140字才能发表我在凑字了,还不够,应...
评分拒绝都是有限度的,如果被拒绝者被拒绝的次数足够多了,“不”最终会转化成“是” 看了他的演讲后看的书,在此之前,我也下了一个挑战,挑战与不同行业的陌生人合照,但是我只是在执行,思考,而没有进一步的再次挑战。在这本书中,我看到的更多是每一次拒绝挑战后作者的思考,...
评分每个人在成长过程中,难免会有被拒绝的经历,例如向喜欢的人表白被拒绝啊,找工作被拒绝啊……在某种意义上,被拒绝其实就是失败。 然而,一次失败并不代表着永远的失败。就像书的名字一样,没有永远的拒绝,你只是暂时不被接受。老话常谈,失败乃成功之母,只要不放弃,学着...
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