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发表于2024-11-25
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An entertaining and inspiring account of conquering his fear of rejection, offering a completely new perspective on how to turn a no into a yes.
Jia Jiang came to the United States with the dream of being the next Bill Gates. But despite early success in the corporate world, his first attempt to pursue his entrepreneurial dream ended in rejection. Jia was crushed, and spiraled into a period of deep self doubt. But he realized that his fear of rejection was a bigger obstacle than any single rejection would ever be, and he needed to find a way to cope with being told no without letting it destroy him. Thus was born his "100 days of rejection" experiment, during which he willfully sought rejection on a daily basis--from requesting a lesson in sales from a car salesman (no) to asking a flight attendant if he could make an announcement on the loud speaker (yes) to his famous request to get Krispy Kreme doughnuts in the shape of Olympic rings (yes, with a viral video to prove it).
Jia learned that even the most preposterous wish may be granted if you ask in the right way, and shares the secret of successful asking, how to pick targets, and how to tell when an initial no can be converted into something positive. But more important, he learned techniques for steeling himself against rejection and ways to develop his own confidence--a plan that can't be derailed by a single setback. Filled with great stories and valuable insight, Rejection Proof is a fun and thoughtful examination of how to overcome fear and dare to live more boldly.
JIA JIANG is founder of the popular blog and video series 100 Days of Rejection. His story has been covered by dozens of news outlets, including Bloomberg Businessweek, Yahoo News, the Huffington Post, Forbes, Inc.com, MTV, Gawker, the Daily Mail, Fox News, and CBS's The Jeff Probst Show. A native of Beijing, China, Jiang came to the U.S. as a teenager to pursue his dream of becoming an entrepreneur. Jiang holds an MBA from Duke University and a bachelor's degree in computer science from Brigham Young University.
被拒絕所嘗試的點子是蠻有創意的,可是之後的反思很囉嗦,兩句話可以說完的寫成兩頁(所以去看他的ted talk就夠了,15min能get到精華了),其實總結起來就是多做&不要想太多。被拒絕一次那就真誠地多試幾次;同時你真的很難猜測別人拒絕的原因,所以也不要自己在那糾結瞎想,直接行動起來。另外把很多體驗經歷都強行歸入拒絕這點有些扯。
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评分浓浓一碗鸡汤。其实给两星有点过分,因为我其实从中受益良多。然而实在觉得买书没有什么必要,去看作者的Ted Talk就好(值得看的,尤其是我们这种不甘心的社恐)。
评分浓浓一碗鸡汤。其实给两星有点过分,因为我其实从中受益良多。然而实在觉得买书没有什么必要,去看作者的Ted Talk就好(值得看的,尤其是我们这种不甘心的社恐)。
评分被拒絕所嘗試的點子是蠻有創意的,可是之後的反思很囉嗦,兩句話可以說完的寫成兩頁(所以去看他的ted talk就夠了,15min能get到精華了),其實總結起來就是多做&不要想太多。被拒絕一次那就真誠地多試幾次;同時你真的很難猜測別人拒絕的原因,所以也不要自己在那糾結瞎想,直接行動起來。另外把很多體驗經歷都強行歸入拒絕這點有些扯。
勇敢地智取,而不是懒惰地期望用蛮力解决问题。 不怕失败,勇敢尝试是好的。 但作者尝试的很多事情,无关紧要,失败成本不高。 有些时候,失败会影响后续行动的成功率。因为采用鲁莽愚蠢的方法造成的失败,会降低自己的形象,消耗有限的资源,疏远可能提供帮助的人。也有可能让...
评分我觉得我要成事儿了。其实自己最大的问题就是害怕被拒绝,这次我觉得找到了解决方案。书已经买了,明天到,回头再翻墙看看视频。解决了这些问题之后我就要起飞了,火星见各位。因为害怕拒绝而错过很多事情,现在刚刚好,ready to fight。到140字才能发表我在凑字了,还不够,应...
评分老实说,在读这本书之前,我心里是有点奇怪的,因为在我心中住着一个世俗的中年人,她告诉我,拒绝就是行不通,你应该尝试其他的路,而不应该一再推销你的观点或者商品,我也曾经是个推销员,我也曾经是店里销售的冠军,我知道有些顾客可能是勉为其难买下我给她们...
评分平时总觉得自己是个很谨慎的人,事情总想要准备齐全才去做,但其实追根究底,还是因为害怕被拒绝、被否定,而变得有些畏手畏脚。 能看到这本书真的很幸运,作者从自己的亲身经历出发,进行了跌宕起伏、充满创意的尝试拒绝100天,又研究了相关心理、社会学等领域的著作...
评分勇敢地智取,而不是懒惰地期望用蛮力解决问题。 不怕失败,勇敢尝试是好的。 但作者尝试的很多事情,无关紧要,失败成本不高。 有些时候,失败会影响后续行动的成功率。因为采用鲁莽愚蠢的方法造成的失败,会降低自己的形象,消耗有限的资源,疏远可能提供帮助的人。也有可能让...
Rejection Proof pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024