图书标签: 爱情 阿兰·德波顿 Alaim_de_Botton 心理学 英文原版 英国 小说 文学
发表于2025-03-04
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We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as “happily ever after.” The Course of Love is a novel that explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain love, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence. You experience, along with Rabih and Kirsten, the first flush of infatuation, the effortlessness of falling into romantic love, and the course of life thereafter. Interwoven with their story and its challenges is an overlay of philosophy—an annotation and a guide to what we are reading.
This is a Romantic novel in the true sense, one interested in exploring how love can survive and thrive in the long term. The result is a sensory experience—fictional, philosophical, psychological—that urges us to identify deeply with these characters, and to reflect on his and her own experiences in love. Fresh, visceral, and utterly compelling, The Course of Love is a provocative and life-affirming novel for everyone who believes in love.
他不乏米兰·昆德拉的批评深度,深具罗兰·巴特尔的解构气质;但,他比昆德拉有更立体的爱情思维,比巴特尔更熨帖恋人的爱情神经。他激活我们全新的阅读体验。
阿兰·德波顿(Alain de Botton),英伦才子型作家,生于1969年,毕业于剑桥大学,现住伦敦。著有小说《爱情笔记》(1993)、《爱上浪漫》(1994)、《亲吻与述说》(1995)及散文作品《拥抱逝水年华》(1997)、《哲学的慰藉》(2000)、《旅行的艺术》(2002)、《身份的焦虑》(2004)、《无聊的魅力》(2005)、《幸福的建筑》(2007)、《工作颂歌》(2009)、《机场里的小旅行》(2009)、《写给无神论者》(2012)、《新闻的骚动》(2015)。他的作品已被译成二十几种文字。
every aspect of courtship and marriage
评分鸡汤。
评分"The trick is perhaps not to start a new life but to learn to reconsider the old one with less jaded and habituated eyes." 德波顿用副标题说这是一本小说,但其实还是一本爱情随笔,从《爱情笔记》再到这本书的调调,读起来总是愉快的。
评分every aspect of courtship and marriage
评分every aspect of courtship and marriage
在大部分爱情故事中,王子和公主经历重重险阻之后,有情人终成眷属之后就会戛然而止,以一句“live happily ever after(从此幸福的生活在一起)”草草结束。就好像这俩人不是结婚、而是死后上了天堂一样(可能讲出“婚姻是爱情的坟墓”的人也是这样想的)。这些从孩提时代就读...
评分 评分关于婚姻的随笔小说。 第三人称上帝式的视角,每写一段情节再来一段心理学家评述式的话语。情节极其简单,但是写作的细节足够细腻,而且翻译也有一点韵味,值得一读。 最开始阅读这本书是因为看这本书的梗概说里面有婚外情但最终婚姻却更进一步,我想知道夫妻两人是如何做到这...
评分最喜欢的章节是一地鸡毛,还有双向出轨那段也喜欢。我们必须做好充足的准备才可以踏入婚姻,有些矛盾早发生不是什么坏事。我看过的另一本书《社会动物》里面也有类似的情节,那本书描写的视角更好玩,让人觉得一个具体的人不重要,那本书本身就是在讲社会学常识。而阿兰这本书...
评分二十二岁,有过失败的感情经历,正在情感的迷惑期,感谢遇到这本书。 从爱情的萌芽,到步入婚姻,经历抚养子女、子女教育、事业波动、情感危机,再到最后两个人认清了爱情,接纳了婚姻。有对“罗曼蒂克期”的感同身受与豁然开朗,对于婚姻围墙之内的迷茫和疑惑,对于为人父母后...
The Course of Love pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025