Boundaries pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載2025
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
- 心理學
- relationship
- 成長
- 關係
- Christian
- 自我管理
- spiritual
- 英文原版
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
具體描述
讀後感
给一些问题的发生定义为：界线不清楚。强调自己要对自己负责。 但并未深入谈到界线不清楚产生的原因是什么？由于不好意思拒绝别人、热心过度、或者是想包办全场导致的界限不清楚，那在这想法背后的来自自己心的问题是什么呢？作者并未深入阐述，可能是惧怕人，掌控权等。 没有...
評分看完过犹不及了，不管作者怎么说，用什么例子或什么定义，我认为，全书在说的，就是“责任”二字，所谓界线，大约就是分清哪些是自己的责任，哪些是别人的责任，承担起自己的责任，就是爱自己，也是爱别人。因而，过份的自卑与过份的自恋都不是爱自己，因为这些都是可以产生后...
評分我其实是为了学习如何养小孩才看这本书的。我非常希望能够培养一个独立，精神健康的宝宝。看了这书后，发现其实自己的问题最大了。我以前的生活目标就是尽可能地去帮助别人，宁可自己苦死，累死也要周围人快乐。结果就是自己真的要苦死，累死了，但有的时候别人还不高兴，还埋...
評分人与人之间要有界限，而要设计界限，最大的困难之一就是我们内心的恐惧，如果我拒绝了朋友，朋友是不是不再联系我？如果我拒绝了父母，是否我就背上了不孝的骂名？如果我拒绝了爱人，爱人是否会抛弃我？如果我拒绝了老板，是否我明天就会被炒鱿鱼？ 流过很多泪，绕过很多圈，...
評分这本书对我,是个转折点! 每天生活在这个世界上,总觉得哪里不对劲，可就是不清楚。 这本书告诉你，你生活的界限在哪里，你的界限能帮助你解决很多问题。 于是，我开始全面审视我的界限。 于是，我开始真正建立我的界限。 于是，我的生活完全改变了模样。
用戶評價
對基督教背景的同學很有用，這本書教會我們如何成熟地去愛和拒絕， 怎樣成為像耶穌一樣的人。沒有背景的同學忽略宗教的部分，仍然能在做人和為人處世方麵學到很多道理和方法。
评分我的boundaries實在太糟糕瞭。那又怎麼樣，孩子的boundaries的作用大多數是來理解兩歲之後人生的拒絕，做一個控製狂不是更開心嗎，絕對優勢策略https://archive.org/details/BOUNDARIESTheBook
评分對基督教背景的同學很有用，這本書教會我們如何成熟地去愛和拒絕， 怎樣成為像耶穌一樣的人。沒有背景的同學忽略宗教的部分，仍然能在做人和為人處世方麵學到很多道理和方法。
评分many helpful insight to the problems in my life :P
评分很多地方宗教味太濃。。。但主題思想個人看來是非常正確的。對人與人界限的來源，各種體現，各種問題有很深入的闡述。我個人就是個人界限不夠強的人，引發瞭不少苦惱，努力改啊。
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