Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
这本书对我,是个转折点! 每天生活在这个世界上,总觉得哪里不对劲,可就是不清楚。 这本书告诉你,你生活的界限在哪里,你的界限能帮助你解决很多问题。 于是,我开始全面审视我的界限。 于是,我开始真正建立我的界限。 于是,我的生活完全改变了模样。
评分我感觉界限疗法也属于一种叙事疗法。 “同理心”要求理解来访者,他的行为是有道理的,然后告诉他, 合理的未必是公理,公理也未必是真理。 这有点麻烦,何为真理?谁能回答? 世界观如此多元化,真理提得越来越少,合理成了目的。 这本书基于圣经原则,给了一把尺子,衡量何为...
评分我其实是为了学习如何养小孩才看这本书的。我非常希望能够培养一个独立,精神健康的宝宝。看了这书后,发现其实自己的问题最大了。我以前的生活目标就是尽可能地去帮助别人,宁可自己苦死,累死也要周围人快乐。结果就是自己真的要苦死,累死了,但有的时候别人还不高兴,还埋...
评分看完过犹不及了,不管作者怎么说,用什么例子或什么定义,我认为,全书在说的,就是“责任”二字,所谓界线,大约就是分清哪些是自己的责任,哪些是别人的责任,承担起自己的责任,就是爱自己,也是爱别人。因而,过份的自卑与过份的自恋都不是爱自己,因为这些都是可以产生后...
评分阅读目标: 1.观察没有边界感的表现 2.分析没有边界感的原因 3.练习重新建立边界感的方式 *因圣经内容和判断性语句穿插,不确定本书是否能够达到以上目标。 第一章 关于界线的疑问 第二章 界线是啥 一、界限的定义 P23引- 我们必须对(to)别人与为(for)自己负责。 P24引-好...
Reference to the Bible makes it hard to follow.
评分核心思想是极好的,摆脱掉基督教说教也能独立成书
评分很多地方宗教味太浓。。。但主题思想个人看来是非常正确的。对人与人界限的来源,各种体现,各种问题有很深入的阐述。我个人就是个人界限不够强的人,引发了不少苦恼,努力改啊。
评分Work In process
评分作者用了大量的例子和圣经的引用来解释边界,如何建立边界。很实用,但是,还是老话,要完全做到需要不断的实践。
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