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发表于2025-03-13
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025
One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author who writes The Atlantic's weekly "Dear Therapist" advice column. A contributing editor at The Atlantic, she also writes regularly for The New York Times, and has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, CNN, and NPR. Learn more at LoriGottlieb.com or by following her @LoriGottlieb1 on Twitter.
作者作為psycho-therapist和“patient”兩個雙重身份講故事,讀書的過程中看著幾個谘詢者一點點在修補著自己,不論是對錯過的遺憾,童年的不幸,對未來的恐懼,還是麵對人生失去的可能性,學習到瞭好多智慧,瞭解每個人的痛苦沒有分級,與自我的和解,self love and compassion,有很多值得沉澱的東西。Julie 和John 的兩段故事都被感動哭瞭
評分對比同期讀的brene brown,這本書節奏要慢很多也沉重一些,尤其開頭覺得這樣的人怎麼可以是therapist呢?可是慢慢讀下去越來越有共鳴和收獲,就像作者一樣,層層撥開的故事走進每個人的生活,也體會到時間和努力所帶來的改變。有句話說的好:the nature of life is change and the nature of people is to resist change. ,
評分response and reaction // feeling better or feeling less // ultimate concerns: death, isolation, freedom and meaninglessness // 上下班路上聽這本書的後果就是,經常需要擦乾淚眼走進辦公室,或者工作到一半躲廁所哭一哭。安得therapist韆萬個,大庇天下普通人俱歡顔。
評分每個人或多或少都渇望擁有一段親密關係,並從中學會自處、自愛,與勇敢。
評分聽的Audible版,仿佛做瞭14小時的therapy,深感值迴票價。雖然是學心理的但是對therapy滿心狐疑的我終於與其和解。
在心里最失落的几周,听完了这本书。听着跟自己相似的故事,被具有同情心的描述出来,很治愈。那些没有经历过的、或感觉不平衡的事情,也能充满同情心。把心里那些汹涌的、无处安放的关于爱、亲情、和死亡的情绪,备剖析出来然后又温柔对待。“But part of getting to know you...
評分我喜欢这本书。 作为一个新手咨询师,作为一个也在两周一次看心理咨询的client, 而更是,作为一个有思想有梦想有自己的焦虑与恐惧的平凡的人,这本书可以从不同的角度和层次中与我产生共鸣。 作者很巧妙的把自己作为一个咨询师,client和普通的人的经历与心理学一些有用的专业...
評分在心里最失落的几周,听完了这本书。听着跟自己相似的故事,被具有同情心的描述出来,很治愈。那些没有经历过的、或感觉不平衡的事情,也能充满同情心。把心里那些汹涌的、无处安放的关于爱、亲情、和死亡的情绪,备剖析出来然后又温柔对待。“But part of getting to know you...
評分敲下标题,犹豫了一下,加上了“尝试”:毕竟这是一个鱼龙混杂的行业,毕竟我自己确实没有看过心理咨询师,毕竟哪怕是合格的心理咨询师,也需要有一定程度的personality match to make it click. 其实我想表达的是一个更加普世的观点:人人都需要尝试being selfaware. 是的,我...
評分一个母亲生下唐氏儿以后写了一篇文章:“这事儿吧,就像我满心欢喜准备去活色生香的意大利,结果飞机到了我才发现,我被扔到了荷兰,而且,还走不了了。” 一个自闭儿童的母亲把这段话送给了她刚渡完蜜月就发现自己得了癌症的好朋友。 我的第一反应就是,荷兰哪儿有那么惨?!...
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025