Why are lovers quicker to forgive their partners for infidelity than for leaving dirty dishes in the sink? Why will sighted people pay more to avoid going blind than blind people will pay to regain their sight? Why do dining companions insist on ordering different meals instead of getting what they really want? Why do patients remember long medical procedures as being less painful than short ones? Why do home sellers demand prices they wouldn’t dream of paying if they were home buyers? Why are shoppers happier when they can’t get refunds? Why do pigeons seem to have such excellent aim; why can’t we remember one song while listening to another; and why does the line at the grocery store always slow down the moment we join it?
In this brilliant, witty, and accessible book, renowned Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert describes the foibles of imagination and illusions of foresight that cause each of us to misconceive our tomorrows and misestimate our satisfactions. Vividly bringing to life the latest scientific research in psychology, cognitive neuroscience, philosophy, and behavioral economics, Gilbert reveals what scientists have discovered about the uniquely human ability to imagine the future, and about our capacity to predict how much we will like it when we get there. With penetrating insight and sparkling prose, Gilbert explains why we seem to know so little about the hearts and minds of the people we are about to become.</p>
Daniel Gilbert is Harvard College Professor of Psychology at Harvard University. He has won numerous awards for his teaching and research, including the American Psychological Association's Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology. His research has been covered by The New York Times Magazine, Forbes, Money, CNN, U.S. News & World Report, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, Scientific American, Self, Men's Health, Redbook, Glamour, Psychology Today, and many others. His short stories have appeared in Amazing Stories and Asimov's Science Fiction Magazine, as well as other magazines and anthologies. He lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
这本《哈佛幸福课》是中信出版社的一位编辑送我的,送的时候没跟我说写评论的事。前几天我看完了这本书,看的时候写了一点读书笔记,于是便据此写了下面这篇可能有些跑题的书评。 这本书原来曾以《撞上快乐》这样一个书名出过一版,可能第一版卖得不太理想,于是改了书名又出了...
評分一个幸福的人,必须有一个明确的、可以带来快乐和意义的目标,然后努力地去追求。真正快乐的人,会在自己觉得有意义的生活方式里,享受它的点点滴滴。 一个幸福的人,是即能享受当下所做的事,又可以获得美满的未来。 寻找真正能让自己快乐而有意义的目标,才是获得幸福的关键...
評分2012年1月26日(星期四) 晚上9:42 第一课================= 心理自助课程变得假大空,而偏于学术的研究虽然有很多资料,但是很少有人去看。因为太艰深。 因此作者要从象牙塔到大众建立起一个链接。 ----------------------------------------------- 一部分是心理学基础的东西。...
評分 評分花了近一周的业余时间看完了《撞上快乐》,当初是冲着书名在当当上买了它,买之前我还专门去豆瓣上看了别人写的书评,并且一而再再而三地阅读这本书的简介,最终才决定买下来,记得还不便宜,二十多块钱吧。 当然,我是被“撞上快乐”这四个字给蒙蔽了,因为我本来是想学习下如...
人要先快樂 學習工作效率纔高 = =
评分還挺搞笑的。提到瞭大量的對比試驗,都挺有趣的
评分Since memory and imagination are not completely reliable, people can't deal with the past and the future in a reasonable way. This book is not an instruction manual of how to become happy or in Tal Ben-Shahar's words, to become happier. You have to find your own way elsewhere.
评分有意思的是,這本書不是教你如何變得快樂, 而且探討人們如何看待開心快樂這件事,一般來說,對於當下的心情,人們的描述還是相當準確的, 但接下來就談到瞭過去和未來,人就開始使用MEMORY 和 IMAGINATION... 但它們是FLAWED AND BIASED...看這本書的時候深切體會到黑天鵝作者的關於QUOTE的說明,都是心理學傢,這本書引用的很多研究跟THINKING , FAST AND SLOW 相似,隻是有的地方解釋有點不同.
评分highly recommend
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