This new model of human interaction has been chosen by Google to train the entire company worldwide (30,000 employees), is the #1 book for your career chosen by The Wall Street Journal’s website, and is labeled “phenomenal” by Lawyers’ Weekly and “brilliant” by Liza Oz of the Oprah network.
Based on more than 20 years of research and practice among 30,000 people in 45 countries, Getting More concludes that finding and valuing the other party’s emotions and perceptions creates far more value than the conventional wisdom of power and logic. It is intended to provide better agreements for everyone no matter what they negotiate – from jobs to kids to billion dollar deals to shopping.
The book, a New York Times bestseller and #1 Wall Street Journal business best seller, is based on Professor Stuart Diamond’s award-winning course at the Wharton Business School, where the course has been the most popular over 13 years. It challenges the conventional wisdom on every page, from “win-win” to BATNA to rationality to the use of power. Companies have made billions of dollars so far using his new model and parents have gotten their 4-year-olds to willingly brush their teeth and go to bed.
Prof. Diamond draws from his experience as a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist at The New York Times, Harvard-trained attorney, Wharton MBA, U.N. Consultant in many countries and manager and executive in many sectors, including technology, agriculture, medical services, finance, energy and aviation. “The ROI from reading Getting More will make it the best investment you make this year,” says Rhys Dekle, the business development head of the Microsoft Games division, which produces X-Box. He added that the book was his team’s best investment of the year too. The model was also used to quickly solve the 2008 Hollywood Writer’s Strike.
The advice is addressed through the insightful stories of more than 400 people who have used Prof. Diamond’s tools with great success: A 20% savings on an item already on sale. An extra $300 million profit in a business. A woman from India getting out of her own arranged marriage. Better relationships with the family, including teenagers. Raises at work. Better jobs. Dealing with emotional situations. Meeting one’s goals. Finding better things to trade. Solving cultural and political problems, sports conflicts, and ordinary arguments.
The book is intended to be used in any situation. The most common response is “life changing”, beginning on page one. “The most inspirational book I have read this year” said David Simon, an attorney in San Francisco, CA. “This book can change the world,” says Craig Silverman, Investment Advisor, Long Island, NY
斯圖爾特•戴濛德(Stuart Diamond)
世界一流的談判專傢,擁有哈佛大學法學博士學位、沃頓商學院工商管理碩士學位。他曾為財富500強中的許多公司提供過谘詢服務,如榖歌、微軟、保誠、摩根大通等,曾為40多個國傢的政府領導人進行過談判培訓、提供過談判谘詢服務,客戶遍及各個領域。目前,他在沃頓商學院任教,所開設的談判課13年來一直被評為最受學生歡迎的課程。
戴濛德還曾為聯閤國提供廣泛的谘詢服務。他曾說服玻利維亞叢林地帶的三韆農戶停止種植非法古柯,開始改種香蕉。2008年,他所提供的談判方法成功解決瞭美國劇作傢協會在好萊塢電影製片廠問題上的爭端。在他的指導下,很多父母能毫不費力地讓自己的孩子堅持刷牙,按時上床睡覺。
戴濛德早期曾在《紐約時報》當過記者,文章共上過109次《紐約時報》頭版。在參與調查1986年“挑戰者”號航天飛機墜毀事件當中,因錶現突齣而榮獲普利策奬。
这本书带给我最大的启示是——原来人与人的交流还是以情感的偏向性带来很大的影响。在阅读本书之前,我总觉得很多时候上层的交往是一种类似机械化般冰冷的价值评估。大到国与国之间的领导层面沟通,小至吃饭时对服务人员的人态度。 但在经历了这样一场谈判课,我突然恍然大悟...
評分1.尊重对方、尊重对方的行为;了解对方的想法,缩小认知差距。(角色互换) 2.人物时间地点起因什么事怎么做 3.专注于目标(而不是是非或者其他) 4.在这个世界上,大多数人对事实和理性都不感兴趣。在谈判中,我们应该首先确定:对方准备好要听我说话了吗?我清楚对方的观点、...
評分本书中反复提到的几条规则, 比如利用规则或准则、不等价交易,用情感补偿等。 我觉得最最关键的一条就是要想着目的是什么。 绝对不能为了一时痛快激动恼火。只有时刻想的获得更多的利益,那之后就是要考虑采用什么法方了,只有不断的去用书中总结出来的几条规则,才会在谈判过...
評分1用一句“一切都好么”,开始话题,或者寻找双方共同的抱怨处,像交通,天气,政治,总之,通过以上两点可以获得沟通渠道的开始 2任何一次谈判开始前,列出清单,思考策略,了解对方信息,确定目标,把握节奏“我的谈判目标是什么”,“他们是谁”“要想说服他们,需要采取...
評分这本书的主要问题在于逻辑组织比较乱。洋洋洒洒四百多页,可每看完一章却很难组织一张“你到底在讲什么”的脉络结构。整本书不像是教人怎么沟通怎么说话的教材,倒是像心灵鸡汤大杂烩。被出版社包装成了一本“沃顿商学院最受欢迎XXXXX”,个人觉得,作者在沃顿授课的所有内容不...
Simple and practical. If everything was negotiable, the strategies mentioned in this book would be golden means.
评分#1/52#《Getting more-How you can negotiate to succeed in work and life 》人生無處不在談判,它是人生的高階溝通課。
评分理論上來講隻讀瞭前一半 因為時間緊任務重隻能這樣瞭 說實話這種成功學或者心靈雞湯類的暢銷書真是在騙錢誒 首先是無聊 其次還是邏輯混亂 我知道這種書不是為瞭教育人的 所以也並沒有必要有嚴謹的邏輯 或者說讀文史類的人都邏輯混亂?不應該吧 反正我組織文章都會很明確的指齣前後關聯 即使生拉硬套也要看上去是那麼迴事 最近看的所有暢銷書沒有一個是有鮮明邏輯思路的 無聊在於老套的:你看我成功瞭吧 我成功案例有一二三四五六到二百五 同一模式同一套路丟給你 就像西紅柿炒雞蛋250道 雞蛋來自世界各地 然後讓你感悟其中的魅力和食物中的誠意 行行好饒瞭雞蛋吧 它隻是個雞蛋而已 即便是作者引以為傲的談判12條 其實也就那麼迴事 不過比較啓發我的是他的聯係原則 總之人傢自己成功瞭 又能賺賺版稅 誰在乎你被mess瞭啊
评分I read a bit long time ago, and would like to finish it at some time.
评分#1/52#《Getting more-How you can negotiate to succeed in work and life 》人生無處不在談判,它是人生的高階溝通課。
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