圖書標籤: 心理學 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 內嚮 SusanCain 美國
发表于2024-12-22
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At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
via Alan. As Alan said, this book crystalizes things we have been realizing on our own. I am always proud to be an introvert. Wait, what is the name of that song? Quiet is the new loud!
評分讀這本並不是為瞭去「驗證」或「正名」,彆搞得像內嚮的人天生矮一截一樣嘛,雖然作者總時不時讓我這麼覺得。最後幾章更有收獲,講如何對待身邊的內嚮/外嚮人,尤其是在成長階段的小孩子。總想起自己小時候那個裝作很外嚮的階段,不過迴頭看一下覺得做得還不錯呢。當然現在這種stay true的狀態更好。哦對作者確實有點絮叨,耐著性子解釋給你聽的感覺。
評分有聲書,感覺是數字和實驗結果堆砌的雞湯。
評分按自己的想法做人。
評分作者/作者所描述的和我的生活太近瞭,讀著感覺好奇怪。
如作者所言,美国社会中,内向者约占1/3-1/2的比例。考虑到美国是一个移民社会,移民崇尚冒险,而冒险/谨慎与外向/内向有正相关性。那么在非移民社会,内向者的比例应该会更高才对。 以中国而论,数千年结构稳定的农耕社会显然不需要那么多的外向者,安分守己的内向者才是这个...
評分上级推荐我读这本书。我一看书名——《安静-内向性格的竞争力》,警惕与羞愧立马竖起。 为何不认同别人说我“内向”?我在书中找到了答案。 内向性格在长期以来的社会观念中是“低劣”的,相对于总能大声发出自己声音的外向性格,它更是没有竞争力的。但实际上喜欢安静独处...
評分朋友们绝不认为我是个内向者,或许因为我笑点低,说话很大声,有点凶巴巴,对人很强势。 于是我也自认为我是外向者。 似乎潜意识里,都认为内向就是个贬义词,意味着胆小,怯懦,不善交际。显然我离以上还是有一段距离的。 但是渐渐地,看过的书,认识的人,经历过事情的越来越...
評分前段时间刚分享了Susan Cain 名为“The power of introverts 内向者的力量”的TED演讲(http://www.wisdomsnack.com/890.html),因为非常有共鸣,这几日正打算读她今年一月刚出版的新书 Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking,无意间发现了Chr...
評分在地铁上断断续续看了快一个月,才在四月中将此书读完。书写得很好,差不多50页的注释,可见所下的功夫。其思路跟Malcolm Gladwell的书一样:整合学术界里(她针对的是心理学与认知科学)关于某一课题的发现,然后结合生活中的事例讲述出来。文笔也很好,清晰流畅,但幽默感少...
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