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发表于2025-02-08
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A controversial call to arms, Against Empathy argues that the natural impulse to share the feelings of others can lead to immoral choices in both public policy and in our intimate relationships with friends and family.
Most people, including many policy-makers, activists, scientists, and philosophers, have encouraged us to be more empathetic—to feel the pain and pleasure of others. Yale researcher and author Paul Bloom argues that this is a mistake. Far from leading us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices. It muddles our judgment and often leads to cruelty. We are at our best when we are smart enough not to rely on it, and draw upon a more distanced compassion.
Based on groundbreaking scientific findings, Against Empathy makes the case that some of the worst decisions that individuals and nations make—from who to give money to, when to go to war, how to respond to climate change, and who to put in prison—are too often motivated by honest, yet misplaced emotions. With clear and witty prose, Bloom demonstrates how empathy distorts our judgment in every aspect of our lives, from philanthropy and charity to the justice system; from culture and education to foreign policy and war. Without empathy, Bloom insists, our decisions would be clearer, fairer, and ultimately more moral.
Bound to be controversial, Against Empathy shows us that, when it comes to major policy decisions and the choices we make in our everyday lives, limiting our empathetic emotions is often the most compassionate choice we can make.
[加]保罗·布卢姆(Paul Bloom)
● 知名认知心理学家和发展心理学家、耶鲁大学公开课zui受欢迎教授、TED演讲人。
● 布卢姆是耶鲁大学zui受欢迎、zui风趣的心理学教授之一。他的心理学导论课是耶鲁大学zui受欢迎的公开课之一,全球有上千万人观看、学习这一公开课的视频。
● 布卢姆是《科学》杂志评出的Twitter上zui有影响力的50位明星科学家之一,美国哲学与心理学协会前任主席,《行为与脑科学》杂志联合主编。
● 布卢姆因出色的研究和教学工作而获奖无数。他的文章屡见于《纽约时报杂志》《自然》《纽约客》《科学》等刊物。著有畅销书《善恶之源》《快感:为什么它让我们欲罢不能》。
共情的「过犹不及」的效应对个人行为决策给予了更多道德层面的挟持。作者认为更健康的团结是建立于—我理解你的处境,在意你的感受,但我的精神世界不痛不痒。批判过剩的共情迫害了理性的运转条件。
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评分共情的「过犹不及」的效应对个人行为决策给予了更多道德层面的挟持。作者认为更健康的团结是建立于—我理解你的处境,在意你的感受,但我的精神世界不痛不痒。批判过剩的共情迫害了理性的运转条件。
评分the conflict between rationality and human nature designed by evolution
说实话, 这本书争议大, 褒贬不一, 在 Amazon 上评分也不高. 毕竟有同情心有爱心在大多数人眼中是好的而不是坏的. 不过最近看了 "知否知否应是绿肥红瘦" 这个宅斗剧才明白这一点 以前压根不看这种宫斗宅斗剧, 但是 "知否" 这部剧的主题曲太好听了, 就想着看看. 里面的两个大反派...
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评分说实话, 这本书争议大, 褒贬不一, 在 Amazon 上评分也不高. 毕竟有同情心有爱心在大多数人眼中是好的而不是坏的. 不过最近看了 "知否知否应是绿肥红瘦" 这个宅斗剧才明白这一点 以前压根不看这种宫斗宅斗剧, 但是 "知否" 这部剧的主题曲太好听了, 就想着看看. 里面的两个大反派...
评分情侣和朋友相处,都希望对方能与己共情,快乐我的快乐,难过我的难过。 父母教育孩子,会努力培养孩子的共情能力,“宝贝,如果别人这样对你,你会有什么感受呢?” 平时讲课、写文章的时候,也会注意感性理性结合,因为只有道理没有故事的内容,难以激起受众的共情。 共情如此...
评分Against Empathy pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025