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发表于2024-12-26
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024
In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.
其实毒鸡汤也是鸡汤,写得好的鸡汤味也会很浓
评分鸡汤,凌乱分散,也有一两口好的:a. Happiness is a problem: life is full of sufferings and setbacks. It's ok to be unhappy and to fall from time to time; b. Take responsibility for everything in your life: with greater responsibilty, comes greater power; c. Freedom through commitment and only give a f*ck about the few things that really matters: less is more.
评分如果你是一个正常的明白事理的成年人,那么不用在这本书上浪费时间。没有任何开创性的idea,唯一独到之处可能就是作为一本self-help书,平均每两句话一个f-bomb……并不能改变这是一本没必要存在的书这个事实。
评分如果你是一个正常的明白事理的成年人,那么不用在这本书上浪费时间。没有任何开创性的idea,唯一独到之处可能就是作为一本self-help书,平均每两句话一个f-bomb……并不能改变这是一本没必要存在的书这个事实。
评分比预期的有趣,概括一下:挑重要的事给屎,给心甘情愿的屎,给更有意义的屎。
上个星期,与失散多年的老同学吃了个饭。席间,我们交换着彼此的人生进展。 聊着聊着,我们从工作和事业,谈到了班上的同学。 酒过三巡,他有点微醺,摇摇晃晃拉着我说:“你还记得咱们班上的曹天天吗?” 曹天天是当时班上的小霸王。家境好脾气差,老是一副趾高气扬,在学...
评分标题太有误导性了。Not giving a fuck指的是不要像别的美国人一样总要追求“feel-good”心态。 作者的意思是,不仅要give a fuck,还要figure out which things in your life really matter. 在我焦虑,彷徨,脆弱的时候,总有人在我耳边说,“认真你就输了”。 这种生活智慧好...
评分标题太有误导性了。Not giving a fuck指的是不要像别的美国人一样总要追求“feel-good”心态。 作者的意思是,不仅要give a fuck,还要figure out which things in your life really matter. 在我焦虑,彷徨,脆弱的时候,总有人在我耳边说,“认真你就输了”。 这种生活智慧好...
评分Audiobook。最讨厌的self-help类型,想听着催眠的,结果居然还挺好听?声音好听,读的也很好。语言直白又口语化,脏话很多,鸡汤好不好喝先不说,至少表达是有趣的。 全书大概也就500个fxxk吧,听的我有点担心,很担心我听顺了一不小心也说顺了????️ 作者主要论点是人的精力...
评分焦虑、孤独、迷茫……”与“工作、结婚、住房……”相伴而来,这类的字眼在当下的各种语言环境中出现的日益频繁,在快节奏的都市生活中,工作压力大、生活成本高,面对飞涨的房价所带来的普遍性压力,很多职场白领都处于一种精神亚健康状态。 机会诱惑人去尝试,压力逼迫人去...
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024