In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.
很多时候面对问题我们都会逃避。逃避的根本来我们自于对’不幸‘的恐惧。然而何为‘不幸’?如果将媒体或者大众渲染的人生观,不经过思考,盲目加之于自己身上,那么这可能就是真的不幸。但是不会有人教会于我们,什么是对的,什么的是错,什么是好的,什么是坏的。我们需要的...
評分正如作者在后记(鸣谢)中所说的那样,这本书素材多而且凌乱,如果没有详细的整理的话,很难让人理解。 通过通读这本书,我觉得马克•曼森这个作者主要有以下几个观点:把控情绪;要有一个良好的价值观;要主动进行作为;不要怕犯错,应当及时的纠正犯下的错误;要有边界感;...
評分 評分 評分上个星期,与失散多年的老同学吃了个饭。席间,我们交换着彼此的人生进展。 聊着聊着,我们从工作和事业,谈到了班上的同学。 酒过三巡,他有点微醺,摇摇晃晃拉着我说:“你还记得咱们班上的曹天天吗?” 曹天天是当时班上的小霸王。家境好脾气差,老是一副趾高气扬,在学...
書的前半部分讓人覺得醍醐灌頂,處處都是金句,恨不得把每一段都摘抄下來。隨著網絡的發展,在各種社交媒體裏,人人都是那麼成功耀眼,愈發顯得自己失敗渺小。可誰又會把自己的煩心事兒公布於眾呢? 與其哀怨自己的不完美,不如真誠的接受自己。Do something.
评分雞湯,淩亂分散,也有一兩口好的:a. Happiness is a problem: life is full of sufferings and setbacks. It's ok to be unhappy and to fall from time to time; b. Take responsibility for everything in your life: with greater responsibilty, comes greater power; c. Freedom through commitment and only give a f*ck about the few things that really matters: less is more.
评分作者把所有人都知道但是非常難做到的東西寫成瞭一本書
评分20170712閱畢,雞湯類書籍,3.5-4星之間,前幾章語言很暢快流利,適閤作為英文原版鍛煉語感,尤其是平時不多見的髒話體。。。
评分比預期的有趣,概括一下:挑重要的事給屎,給心甘情願的屎,給更有意義的屎。
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