圖書標籤: 心理學 社會學 安德魯·所羅門 英文原版 AndrewSolomon sociology Psychology 《紐約時報》:2012年度十大好書
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From the National Book Award–winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.
Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.
Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance—all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.
Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).
如果不是社會的非難,我不覺得我的不同有什麼沮喪。一本不同者和其他身份不同者探索身份的書。好書為什麼沒有中文版?
評分雖然部分章節有些冗長,觀點也有些biased,但依然不失為一本must-read。
評分An apple nevet falls far from the tree, 最終說不定會變成the tree never grows far from the apple, 一本關於平行身份(horizontal identity)的書,其中有幾百個不尋常傢庭的訪談記錄,也有作者本人的心路曆程。這些abnormal的身份可能是唐氏綜閤癥或侏儒癥這樣的天生生理殘疾,也可能是強暴受孕或是有變性需求的孩子,每個傢庭都有過不同程度的掙紮,雖然書中結果正麵的例子居多,但從large scale上來看,能figure out如何過上相對正常生活,如何平衡這種身份差異的傢庭應該仍是少數。作者本人的傾嚮錶達得很明顯,有些arguement稍顯重復,但受訪者,也包括作者自己的故事本身仍是最動人之處。
評分整部書的問題有三個,一是作者本人的左傾(那是相當的liberal),二是敘事謬誤(每個人在木已成舟時敘述當年都不靠譜),三是抽樣誤差(願意接受采訪的人本身就有特點)。雖然有這些問題,但不得不說看此書能夠拓寬視野和珍愛生活
評分雖然部分章節有些冗長,觀點也有些biased,但依然不失為一本must-read。
感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚,更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈,而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。
評分感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚,更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈,而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。
評分感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚,更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈,而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。
評分不管读者从前怎么理解仁慈、谦逊和悲天悯人,美国刚刚出版的一本大部头非虚构类作品或许都能进一步丰富对仁慈、谦逊和悲天悯人的理解。《离树很远》(Far From the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity, 2012年11月出版)正文部分有702页,加上注释以后总共有97...
評分很久之前,我看到过一个fun fact,大意是跟很多长期的聋哑人讨论一个能够恢复听力的机会,出乎意料的是,大部分的长期聋哑人都对这样的机会不以为然,很多甚至还表示,自己不回去选择恢复自己的听力。当时的我震惊之余,也觉得大概只是他们只是习惯了这种无声的状态。就像我的...
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