圖書標籤: 社會學 Sociology 文化研究 親密關係的變革 Sexuality 性彆研究 吉登斯 社會學
发表于2025-01-23
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The sexual revolution: an evocative term, but what meaning can be given to it today? How does "sexuality" come into being, and what connections does it have with the changes that have affected personal life more generally? In answering these questions, the author disputes many of the dominant interpretations of the role of sexuality in modern culture. The author suggests that the revolutionary changes in which sexuality has become cauth up are more long-term than generally conceded. He sees them as intrinsic to the development of modern societies as a whole and to the broad characteristics of that development. Sexuality as we know it today is a creation of modernity, a terrain upon which the contradictory tendencies of modern social life play themselves out in full. Emancipation and oppression, opportunity and risk--these have become a part of a heady mix that irresistably ties our individual lives to global outcomes and the transformation of intimacy. We live today in a social order in which, for the first time in histroy, women are becoming equal to men--or at least have lodged a claim to such equality as their right. The author does not attempt to analyze the gender inequalities that persist in the economic or political domains, but instead concentrates on a more hisdden personal area in which women--ordinary women, in the course of their day-to-day lives, quite apart from any political agenda--have pioneered changes of greate, and generalizable, importance. These changes essentially concern an exploration of the potentialities of the "pure relationship," a relaitonship that presumes sexual and emotional equality, and is explosive in its connotations for pre-existing relations of power. The author analyzes the emergence of what he calls plastic sexuality--sexuality freed from its intrinsic relation to reproduction--in terms of the emotional emancipation implicit in the pure relationship, as well as women's claim to sexual pleasure. Plastic sexuality is decentered sexuality, freed from both reproduction and subservience to a fixed object. It can be molded as a trait of personality, and thus become bound up with the reflexivity of the self. Premised on plastic sexuality, the pure relationship is not exclusively heterosexual; it is neutral in terms of sexual orientation. The author speculates that the transformaion of intimacy might be a subversive influence on modern institutions as a whole, for a social world in which the dominant ideal was to achieve intinsic rewards from the company of others might be vastly different from that which we know at the present.
安東尼·吉登斯(Anthony Giddens),英國著名社會理論傢和社會學傢,劍橋皇傢學院院士、倫敦經濟政治學院院長、前劍橋大學社會學教授和研究員。
為瞭寫長篇巨製論文看的學術書,不過Giddens應該是學術大牛裏最通俗的一位瞭吧。如果要研習兩性關係和現代性,直接看他這本就行瞭。
評分1.感覺自己中二時期弄混瞭relationship和intimate relationship,平添不少煩惱。 2.吉登斯還是樂觀瞭一些,這麼多年,雖然整體來看民主化是在推進,但是私人領域的男女平等以及親密關係的發展某些方麵來說還是一塌糊塗。 3.學術書讀著還是很費勁的。人笨還得多看書。
評分後麵幾章不太讀得下去。總之,現代社會婚姻製度名存實亡,性彆平等、性嚮可塑在生育社會化後不可阻擋,傳統的兩性權力結構加速瓦解。對於女性來說,這顯然是現代的福音,對於男性來說也未嘗不是如此。將女性作為欲望客體的追逐徵服壓抑瞭男性對女性的情感依賴,進而阻礙瞭男性自我認同的反思性建構。因而,一種民主的私人生活政治對自我規劃是有利的,隻有在平等的關係裏纔有坦誠交流、展露脆弱、保持親密的可能。然而,純粹關係並不提供絕對的心理安全,雙方的獨立性意味著持續流動的自我,隨時威脅著關係的平衡。純粹關係同時許諾自我的敘事性建構和真實親密的獲得,兩者通過互相挑戰而互相滋養,因而是動態的、上升的,也是危險的、不可錨定的。
評分這本書寫在20多年前,仍舊對我現在觀察的社會現象很有解釋力度。吉登斯是讀著讓人還産生點希望的人,我覺得這種希望可能是一廂情願,但是福柯那個路數真的太讓人絕望瞭,所以隻能自我來找尋希望瞭。
評分I believe in romantic love
对我来说,这本书是块难啃的骨头,花了一个多基本上每天读那么一点点。可能是初次读这样的书,但是作为一本翻译过来的书,感觉书中好多翻译的词汇都不是生活中常用的,这大大增加到了理解难度。再加上我有强烈的注意力难以集中症。总的来说也就只读懂了百分之二十吧。 ...
評分 評分有条件的可以去看原版,这个版本的翻译不比翻译软件高明多少,有的章节根本没有1个能读通的句子,这种出书态度实在让人愤怒。
The Transformation of Intimacy pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025