Do you feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to? Are you the focus of intense, violent, and irrational rages? Do you feel as though you are constantly trying to avoid confrontation? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you should remember this: It's not your fault. And you're not alone. In fact, the person you care about may have traits associated with borderline personality disorder (BPD), such as emotion dysregulation, impulsive behavior, unstable sense of self, and difficulty with interpersonal relationships. No matter how much you want to be there for your loved one, at times it can feel like you are walking on eggshells. This compassionate guide will enable you to: Make sense out of the chaos Stand up for yourself and assert your needs Defuse arguments and conflicts Protect yourself and others from violent behavior"Stop Walking on Eggshells"has already helped nearly half a million people with friends and family members suffering from BPD understand this destructive disorder, set boundaries, and help their loved ones stop relying on dangerous BPD behaviors. This fully revised edition has been updated with the very latest BPD research and includes coping and communication skills you can use to stabilize your relationship with the BPD sufferer in your life.
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当你陷入爱恨交加的关系中感到无力、困顿、迷茫……这种感觉令人抓狂，就像跌入一个看不见出口的迷宫。这是，你感觉我急需一张地图，哪怕一些路标，来告诉你，这是为什么？发生了什么？还能做什么？朝哪里走不会错的很远。这本书就是这样一份地图，让你了解和有边缘人格特质的伴侣或亲友如何共处，如何扶持并找到可能的出路。全书对于边缘人格特质的特定、行为反应、内心状态、对于伴侣或亲友的相处困难、相处技巧都有设计。感觉有一份地图在手，总是心安一些。很多时候当不确定时，人们需要的就是一些确定的路径让你知道你可以抵达。虽然读完这本地图并不能保证你能走出情感困境，但是你可以用上面的知识和前人的经验给予一些方向。
评分和作者另外一本书有很多重复部分。 给家属的建议很多缺乏对BPD的同情心，比如对家属说BPD的自杀行为一般是威胁他人的手段，这样的理论也太搞笑了吧！看来国外"砖家"也不少啊！
评分这是一本如何处理和患有BPD（边缘型人格）亲友关系的指导书，是我的心理健康课教授推荐读的书。虽然我身边没有这样的亲友，但是读完之后不光对BPD有了更多的了解，也对日常生活中如何处理人际关系有很多新的感悟。这类书应该被普及。
评分这本书有中文版，叫最亲密的陌生人，之前在亚马逊买到过现在没有了。这本书是我接触到的第一本BPD的书。真心推荐另一本：Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist . 还有yahoo互助组：WelcomeToOz
评分什么时候能有中文版啊？
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