圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性 relationship 英文原版 性心理 心理 love desiration
发表于2024-07-13
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
Esther is my god...
評分【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge,最需要的完全釋放】一切關於性,又高於性. 兩性之間的關係,在性中升華緊密,卻又因為婚姻的捆綁,而導緻性欲下降,從而引緻焦慮與疏遠。床上“風騷/風情”,床下柔情,多少人的幻想,是需要努力與技能的。多些separateness,ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正視雙方的fantasy與the looming third,hot sex總會有的!總之,放輕鬆,少焦慮,尋找適閤雙方的婚姻(Sex)相處之道。
評分聽完瞭。有點敏感和爭議,但這是一本能拯救許多婚姻的書...信我的話就去聽/讀一下。理解當代兩性關係的兩大核心-欲望和穩定關係,如何解開兩者的本質矛盾?Esther Perel本身的多文化視角和女性視角說齣瞭很多人有感受沒能錶達齣的感受。寫作的用詞相當精確,十分睿智和讓人佩服的女性。
評分棒棒棒!我的情感解惑bible啊~
評分對自由與創新的追求,和對穩定安全的依賴,是兩個原動力。試圖通過找到'The One'來一勞永逸地解決問題,是一種幼稚的幻想。自半年前知道Esther Perel以來,慢慢變成瞭她的粉絲。
婚姻到底意味着什么,是收获甜蜜的梦乡,还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想,或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子,是因为它引起了人...
評分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
評分尽管身处现代社会,我们对“性”的态度似乎越来越开放了,但我们对明星等公众人物的“出轨”几乎仍是零容忍。每一次明星出轨风波都能妥妥地上热搜,掀起轩然大波和吃瓜大潮,引来骂声一片。 这一次也是这样,先是阿沁微博发出长文含泪控诉被男友刘阳“出轨”,然后是刘阳发文低...
評分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
評分Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024