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发表于2024-12-23
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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
应该是 Esther Perel 的第一本书,介绍了性对于关系的不同作用,不同的问题及对应的态度。书摘在此: https://readings.posthaven.com/mating-in-captivity-by-esther-perel
评分对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast,这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)~ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好,但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害,跟supervisors讨论了很多次,为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷(够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些,但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅,对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊,也不那么“实践”向。
评分Very useful book for relationship! Highly recommended!
评分太多的爱就没有性
评分A bit redundant. 很正确但是治疗的话语shallow. 序言不错
这本书的封面很独特,也很温馨,当时拿到这本书的时候我很好奇为何不是一双男鞋,一双女鞋,而是一只男鞋,一只女鞋?并且还是拖鞋?读完这本书之后,现在想想觉得有道理。等到我们慢慢老去,两个人就是一双手、一双脚,相互搀扶,慢慢老去。而拖鞋代表的是在家的日子,也可以...
评分在我看来,婚姻大概是世界上最微妙、最脆弱的关系了。两个人相互牵手,发誓要白头到老、共度一生。谁知道刚过了最初的新婚燕尔,一切就改变了模样:七年之痒、中年危机相继而来,出轨、欺骗、背叛一桩接着一桩。曾经相爱的人彼此猜忌、相互敌视,最终把好端端的婚姻过成了爱情...
评分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分关于性的心理辅导《说对爱,表对情,爱情不灭灯》 西方和欧美都有专门进行婚恋咨询的心理咨询师,而且还可以细分成很多更专业的领域,比如恋爱指导、婚姻指导、性爱辅导等等,这本书的作者就是专门做性辅导的咨询师。 其实中国人的婚姻问题也并不少,但是却还没听说过...
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024