A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
关于性的心理辅导《说对爱,表对情,爱情不灭灯》 西方和欧美都有专门进行婚恋咨询的心理咨询师,而且还可以细分成很多更专业的领域,比如恋爱指导、婚姻指导、性爱辅导等等,这本书的作者就是专门做性辅导的咨询师。 其实中国人的婚姻问题也并不少,但是却还没听说过...
评分尽管身处现代社会,我们对“性”的态度似乎越来越开放了,但我们对明星等公众人物的“出轨”几乎仍是零容忍。每一次明星出轨风波都能妥妥地上热搜,掀起轩然大波和吃瓜大潮,引来骂声一片。 这一次也是这样,先是阿沁微博发出长文含泪控诉被男友刘阳“出轨”,然后是刘阳发文低...
评分婚姻到底意味着什么,是收获甜蜜的梦乡,还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想,或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子,是因为它引起了人...
评分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分1.只谈恋爱不结婚就会更快乐吗? 在最近一年里,我跟朋友们聊天时,感情问题占据了大部分时间: 为什么我们在一起各玩各的手机? 为什么对方总是说一些让我不高兴的话? 为什么热恋时精心打扮善于聊天的那个人变成了现在这个样子? 为什么我感觉被忽略了而生气,对方却觉得我无...
A bit redundant. 很正确但是治疗的话语shallow. 序言不错
评分Esther is my god...
评分Esther is my god...
评分听完了。有点敏感和争议,但这是一本能拯救许多婚姻的书...信我的话就去听/读一下。理解当代两性关系的两大核心-欲望和稳定关系,如何解开两者的本质矛盾?Esther Perel本身的多文化视角和女性视角说出了很多人有感受没能表达出的感受。写作的用词相当精确,十分睿智和让人佩服的女性。
评分对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast,这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)~ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好,但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害,跟supervisors讨论了很多次,为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷(够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些,但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅,对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊,也不那么“实践”向。
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