A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
婚姻到底意味着什么,是收获甜蜜的梦乡,还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想,或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子,是因为它引起了人...
评分 评分 评分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
它告诉你婚姻是如何成为爱情的坟墓的。人和人之间靠得太近,就会连对象的面貌都看不清。
评分它告诉你婚姻是如何成为爱情的坟墓的。人和人之间靠得太近,就会连对象的面貌都看不清。
评分【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge,最需要的完全释放】一切关于性,又高于性. 两性之间的关系,在性中升华紧密,却又因为婚姻的捆绑,而导致性欲下降,从而引致焦虑与疏远。床上“风骚/风情”,床下柔情,多少人的幻想,是需要努力与技能的。多些separateness,ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正视双方的fantasy与the looming third,hot sex总会有的!总之,放轻松,少焦虑,寻找适合双方的婚姻(Sex)相处之道。
评分听完了。有点敏感和争议,但这是一本能拯救许多婚姻的书...信我的话就去听/读一下。理解当代两性关系的两大核心-欲望和稳定关系,如何解开两者的本质矛盾?Esther Perel本身的多文化视角和女性视角说出了很多人有感受没能表达出的感受。写作的用词相当精确,十分睿智和让人佩服的女性。
评分A bit redundant. 很正确但是治疗的话语shallow. 序言不错
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