'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
尽管身处现代社会,我们对“性”的态度似乎越来越开放了,但我们对明星等公众人物的“出轨”几乎仍是零容忍。每一次明星出轨风波都能妥妥地上热搜,掀起轩然大波和吃瓜大潮,引来骂声一片。 这一次也是这样,先是阿沁微博发出长文含泪控诉被男友刘阳“出轨”,然后是刘阳发文低...
评分1.只谈恋爱不结婚就会更快乐吗? 在最近一年里,我跟朋友们聊天时,感情问题占据了大部分时间: 为什么我们在一起各玩各的手机? 为什么对方总是说一些让我不高兴的话? 为什么热恋时精心打扮善于聊天的那个人变成了现在这个样子? 为什么我感觉被忽略了而生气,对方却觉得我无...
评分文/Gloria 问:有什么保持长期感情的秘诀吗? 答:不忠,不是不忠这个行为,而是来自不忠的威胁。唯有嫉妒之情的介入才能拯救被日复一日的单调重复消失得寡淡无味的爱情关系。 2009年发布的一份调查报告显示:中国夫妻中,无性婚姻占比25%。 也就是说,每四对夫妻里,就有一对...
评分去年,我在某平台买了《李银河52堂性学课》。听完课心想着花了钱总得让它物超所值,于是兴高采烈在姐妹群里分享。没想到话题一扔进去,原本热闹非凡的群聊顿时鸦雀无声,别说调侃,连接茬的都没有。我只好放弃分享的欲望,假装路过。 第二个周末,我在线下带拆一本婚恋主题的书...
评分它告诉你婚姻是如何成为爱情的坟墓的。人和人之间靠得太近,就会连对象的面貌都看不清。
评分【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge,最需要的完全释放】一切关于性,又高于性. 两性之间的关系,在性中升华紧密,却又因为婚姻的捆绑,而导致性欲下降,从而引致焦虑与疏远。床上“风骚/风情”,床下柔情,多少人的幻想,是需要努力与技能的。多些separateness,ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正视双方的fantasy与the looming third,hot sex总会有的!总之,放轻松,少焦虑,寻找适合双方的婚姻(Sex)相处之道。
评分太多的爱就没有性
评分很好看
评分一口气听完这本书有点吃不消,感觉还是一集一集地听她的podcast感觉节奏比较舒服一点。感觉还是应该捧着书本好好阅读,才能消化。爱和性绝对是两码事,男生对此的理解和女生对此的理解南辕北辙。
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