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UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING Moving from Rewards and Pu

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Alfie Kohn
Atria Books
2007年
272 页
127.0
平装
9780743487504

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Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?" and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking, "What do kids need - and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that quetion are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them.

One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.

More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting - including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.

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著者简介

Alfie Kohn is the author of nine previous books, including Punished by Rewards and The Schools Our Children Deserve, that have helped to shape the thinking of parents and educators across the country and abroad. He lectures widely and lives (actually) with his family in the Boston are and (virtually) at www.alfiekohn.org.


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车轱辘话翻来倒去的说,真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受

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一,作为父母,无条件地爱孩子,是由于ta是你的孩子,而不是由于ta做了哪些可以让你自豪的事。这种无条件的爱,既不是溺爱,也不是对你的孩子市恩市义(所谓养育之恩,即属市恩市义)。二,做出恰当决定的能力需要从幼年一点点培养、历练,并让孩子了解每一项决定都与责任的承担有关。学习做出恰当决定的途径,恰恰是通过做决定本身,而非通过听从他人指导。三,要有勇气、有能力面对和质疑自己的养育经历以及被养育的经历。是的,人通常不愿意质疑自己、质疑自己亲近的人,尤其是自己父母。但谁都不是完人,包括你和你父母,所以,只要用心,一定会找到可以改进的地方,使自己变得更好并尝试做更好的父母。

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车轱辘话翻来倒去的说,真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受

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One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.

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One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.

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把你的孩子当盘菜 【文】王传言 你希望你的孩子未来是什么样子的?面对这个疑问你可能会想出很多答案。但是,你有没有想过一个问题:你的孩子希望自己未来是什么样子的。你的孩子是按照你的路数去走完自己的路还是要按照自己的路数去经营人生,这一点至关重要也是该书的终极思...  

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感觉是白左那一套,鼓吹父母和儿童要平权。 一、不能惩罚 1.1. 体罚不用说了 1.2. 批评是精神惩罚 1.3 连被普遍接受的timeout,即犯错之后双规自省,都被质疑为“爱的剥夺” 二、不能赞赏 2.1 物质奖励,是过早把市场机制引入家庭,谈钱伤感情,扭曲心理。 2.2 口头表扬,潜台...  

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想要把孩子养育的好,绝非易事,本书也确实没有给出任何具体的办法。就像作者说的一样,养育孩子没有死的教条的办法,每个小孩都是独立的,个性的。 读前半本书的时候,我一直在问一个问题,如果不能惩罚,不能表扬,那我怎么办,碰到孩子不听话,哭闹,耍脾气的时候,不能这样...  

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《无条件养育》的作者认为应当慎用表扬,就如同慎用批评一样,孩子不应该因为做某事而被爱,应该因为他们是孩子而被爱。行为主义的方法如同驯狗,将食物、玩具、表扬(或者说成人的喜爱)作为奖励和惩罚的手段,使年幼的孩子时时生活担心自己会受表扬还是批评的巨大压力...  

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最近看了两本教育方面的书,《阅读的力量》和《无条件养育》。第一本是讲自由、自愿的阅读的好处,拖泥带水的几百页,读完就记得这个结论了。 《无条件养育》倒是在很大程度上与我之前的想法冲突很大。 论坛里面经常有父母讨论如何教育孩子的,“那天终于忍不住揍了他一顿”...  

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