图书标签: 教育 育儿 心理学 孩子教育 儿童 发展心理学 psychology 孩子
发表于2024-12-25
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“Drop the flashcards—grit, character, and curiosity matter even more than cognitive skills. A persuasive wake-up call.”—People
Why do some children succeed while others fail? The story we usually tell about childhood and success is the one about intelligence: success comes to those who score highest on tests, from preschool admissions to SATs. But in How Children Succeed, Paul Tough argues that the qualities that matter more have to do with character: skills like perseverance, curiosity, optimism, and self-control.
How Children Succeed introduces us to a new generation of researchers and educators, who, for the first time, are using the tools of science to peel back the mysteries of character. Through their stories—and the stories of the children they are trying to help—Tough reveals how this new knowledge can transform young people’s lives. He uncovers the surprising ways in which parents do—and do not—prepare their children for adulthood. And he provides us with new insights into how to improve the lives of children growing up in poverty. This provocative and profoundly hopeful book will not only inspire and engage readers, it will also change our understanding of childhood itself.
“Illuminates the extremes of American childhood: for rich kids, a safety net drawn so tight it’s a harness; for poor kids, almost nothing to break their fall.”—New York Times
“I learned so much reading this book and I came away full of hope about how we can make life better for all kinds of kids.”—Slate
Paul Tough is the author, most recently, of "The Years That Matter Most: How College Makes or Breaks Us." His three previous books include "How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character," which was translated into 27 languages and spent more than a year on the New York Times hardcover and paperback best-seller lists. Paul is a contributing writer to the New York Times Magazine; his writing has also appeared in the New Yorker, the Atlantic, and GQ and on the op-ed page of the New York Times. He is a speaker on topics including education, parenting, equity, and student success. He has worked as an editor at the New York Times Magazine and Harper's Magazine and as a reporter and producer for "This American Life." He was the founding editor of Open Letters, an online magazine. He lives with his wife and two sons in Austin, Texas, and Montauk, New York.
final list of seven: grit self-control zest social intelligence gratitude optimism curiosity多年之后再念这本书,体会到的完全不一样。家里现在有高中生,更加知道性格力量的重要,不仅仅是在学业上,而是在将来人生的漫长道路上的行走。作者提到的基础:孩子小时候生活中没有(心里)创伤和持久的压力和至少要和一个家长之间建立良好的关系让孩子知道总有一个安全网的存在是他们成长的基础。基于此,才可能提到自我控制,自我激励,坚持不懈。很感慨。(2019/12/14)
评分Character matters. The same as, or more than, intelligence.
评分这是一本非常规的讲教育的书,对中国的家长和孩子尤其有教育意义,我们太注重cognitive skill,而忽视了character,这种缺失导致大学毕业生比例虽然增多,但也越来越平庸。英文难度:中上,主要是前面第一章讲了好多神经学和心理学上的术语。
评分坚韧、自控力、好奇心等非认知能力(或者说品格特质)对一个人成功与否起着相当关键的作用,而这些能力很大程度上取决于大脑的管控功能(executive functions)。贫困家庭的儿童由于在成长过程中长期处于高压力状态,他们的管控功能(executive functions)会受到很大影响,例如自控能力差等等。从这个角度讲,他们的确输在起跑线上。不过,好消息是,品格特质直到青年时期都是可塑的。贫困和教育其实是同一个问题,要从减压,锻炼管控功能,加强品格教育入手。作者本人是记者,因此本作不是严肃的心理学或教育学著作,也没有系统去讲如何培养锻炼管控功能。中间部分结构略显松散,看着看着有点出戏。
评分名字有点误导,其实是说如何帮助贫困儿童的。。
I have been fully convinced by Paul that a child success is certainly not academic result but those non-cognitive skills, conscientiousness , grit, self confidence. But how to build a good character will a good question to ask yourself, I think I found my a...
评分这是本与孩子、学生教育方面的书,主要讲述了性格对于孩子成长、学习的影响。 叶圣陶先生说过这样一句话:“什么是教育?简单一句话,就是养成良好的习惯。” 我没什么资格谈论教育,可作为一名希望自己做得更好的父亲,我认同叶先生的观点。 即便是没有看过本书,我也多少认...
评分近年来看过了不少心理学、时间管理的书、杂志、文章,也看了不少育儿的书,发现教育的核心和心理学这些书里讲到要成功(不是名利那种成功,就是单纯的成就自己意义上的成功)的要素是殊途同归的,就是性格养成,更简单一点就是习惯的养成,前面也有书评里面讲了,大教育家...
评分作者并没有写“如何”去帮助失败的孩子和失败的学校,仅仅是讨论了什么事有效的,什么事无效的。这是一本眼界开阔,超越常规的书。我想对学校领导,教育相关的官员、老师和广大的家长同志们说一声,孩子童年期的内心很脆弱,需要用心的倾听和呵护,这时期发生的任何伤痕都会带...
评分近年来看过了不少心理学、时间管理的书、杂志、文章,也看了不少育儿的书,发现教育的核心和心理学这些书里讲到要成功(不是名利那种成功,就是单纯的成就自己意义上的成功)的要素是殊途同归的,就是性格养成,更简单一点就是习惯的养成,前面也有书评里面讲了,大教育家...
How Children Succeed pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024