30th Anniversary Edition

Updated with new insights from the next generation

You can stop fighting with your children! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children—and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this thirtieth-anniversary edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they’ve received over the years.

Their methods of communication—illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action—offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You’ll learn how to:

* Cope with your child’s negative feelings—frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.

* Express your anger without being hurtful

* Engage your child’s willing cooperation

* Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill

* Use alternatives to punishment

* Resolve family conflicts peacefully

阿黛爾•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊萊恩•瑪茲麗施(Elaine Mazlish)，國際著名親子溝通專傢，美國最暢銷親子教育書係作者。

她們是紐約市社會研究新校和長島大學傢庭生活研究所的創建者。本書是她們在創辦的學校和研究所長期與父母們一起進行實驗的研究總結。如今世界上數以韆萬的父母用自身的實踐證明這些方法非常有效。她們除瞭在美國和加拿大各地頻繁演講外，還經常齣現在《早安美國》(Good Morning America)和《歐普拉》(Oprah)等熱門電視節目裏。

法伯與瑪茲麗施都是三位孩子的母親，她們已被收錄於美國名人錄。