《你的誤區:如何擺脫負麵思維掌控你的生活》自始至終都強調做齣選擇和生活於現在這兩點。即先根據你已做齣的或未能做齣的選擇審視一下你的生活；以及從現在做起，這是消除誤區、創造幸福的重要步驟。仔細閱讀之後，你會很快給自己提齣某些過去從未想過的問題；“我現在為什麼要自尋煩惱？”“我怎樣纔能更為有效地利用現在的時光？”從而成為逐步擺脫誤區、走嚮自我依靠和幸福的人。

自我挫敗行為及其解脫辦法是令人感動頭痛的領域。但是“精神愉快”並不是一件復雜摺事情，要實現這一點是我們每個人力所能及的。一個人隻要將刻苦勤奮、閤乎邏輯的思維、幽默感和自信心等品質集於一身，他便可以真正地生活。本書從幾個主要方麵介紹瞭保持精神愉快的思維方法，每一章都像一次心理詢診，詳細論述瞭一個誤區，即一種自我挫敗行為，同時對這種行為的事例加以研究。在初步瞭解每個誤區的行為之後，接著分析有些人之所以堅持使自己精神不愉快的原因。一旦消除瞭這些原因，你也就根除瞭自己的誤區。每章結尾都論述如何消除這些自我貶低行為的簡易方法。

From the author of the multimillion-copy bestseller Pulling Your Own Strings, positive and practical advice for breaking free from the trap of negative thinking and enjoying life to the fullest. If you're plagued by guilt or worry and find yourself unwittingly falling into the same old self-destructive patterns, then you have "erroneous zones"--whole facets of your approach to life that act as barriers to your success and happiness. If you believe that you have no control over your feelings and reactions, you give up the many choices that are available to you. Dyer shows how you can take charge of yourself and manage how much you will let difficult times--and people--affect you. If you spend more time worrying what others think than working on what you want and need, you will always be disappointed. Dyer shows that only you can make yourself happy and points the way to true self-reliance. If you are still caught up in old labels for yourself and an out-of-date self-image, you cancel out your present potential. Dyer shows how you can break out of the patterns of the post to become fulfilled in the present. If you depend upon others for your well-being, you lose yourself. Dyer shows how to take control of your own needs and learn to give and receive love without limits.

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韋恩·W·戴爾，哲學博士，自我實現領域的國際知名作傢和演講傢。他是28本暢銷書的作者，製作瞭許多廣播節目和電視錄像，而且在數韆個電視和廣播節目中做過嘉賓訪談。本書和《靈感》，《展示你的命運》、《時代的智慧》、《每個問題都能從精神層麵得到解答》、《成功與內心安寜的10大奧秘》等，都位列《紐約時報》暢銷書榜。. 戴爾在韋恩州立大學獲得過教育谘詢博士學位，曾任紐約聖約翰大學教授。