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发表于2025-03-29
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A young mortician goes behind the scenes, unafraid of the gruesome (and fascinating) details of her curious profession.
Most people want to avoid thinking about death, but Caitlin Doughty—a twenty-something with a degree in medieval history and a flair for the macabre—took a job at a crematory, turning morbid curiosity into her life’s work. Thrown into a profession of gallows humor and vivid characters (both living and very dead), Caitlin learned to navigate the secretive culture of those who care for the deceased.
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes tells an unusual coming-of-age story full of bizarre encounters and unforgettable scenes. Caring for dead bodies of every color, shape, and affliction, Caitlin soon becomes an intrepid explorer in the world of the dead. She describes how she swept ashes from the machines (and sometimes onto her clothes) and reveals the strange history of cremation and undertaking, marveling at bizarre and wonderful funeral practices from different cultures.
Her eye-opening, candid, and often hilarious story is like going on a journey with your bravest friend to the cemetery at midnight. She demystifies death, leading us behind the black curtain of her unique profession. And she answers questions you didn’t know you had: Can you catch a disease from a corpse? How many dead bodies can you fit in a Dodge van? What exactly does a flaming skull look like?
Honest and heartfelt, self-deprecating and ironic, Caitlin's engaging style makes this otherwise taboo topic both approachable and engrossing. Now a licensed mortician with an alternative funeral practice, Caitlin argues that our fear of dying warps our culture and society, and she calls for better ways of dealing with death (and our dead).
Caitlin Doughty is a licensed mortician and the host and creator of the "Ask a Mortician" web series. She founded the death acceptance collective The Order of the Good Death and cofounded Death Salon. She lives in Los Angeles.
light hearted read
评分还不错,前面大部分比较好看,看她工作的那段经历,能正面死亡的确是最好的态度了,不遮遮掩掩。最后一部分比较无聊了讲她自己的蜕变。
评分殡仪馆里的死亡思考,在一个对死亡隐而不论的社会,很猎奇,也很敬畏。最好的部分其实是作者进入亡者世界的契机,童年时目睹小女孩惨死的心理阴影,「让每个人能够整洁而美好地离开」的理由才是动人的。也许是对死亡本身都没有任何实感,所以一直觉得死亡对于我而言不会造成任何恐慌,更多的是宿命论的无谓感。我恐慌的是疾病,而非死亡。但看完之后觉得,在处理遗体这件事上,还蛮认同作者这种佛系态度的,最好能回到自然去(不过关于尸体不会产生病菌和威胁生命健康这点还没有完全信服
评分死亡是一个很禁忌的话题,但是作者却把这个话题写得轻松,幽默却不乏思考。在作者讲述完毕她自己的经历之后,在书的最后几章里提到对死亡的思考,对死亡仪式的尊重,对什么是好的死亡的理解,把这本书收尾在最秒之处。非常好的阅读体验。
评分果然很有趣并且学到很多新名词
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评分文/舒念 无论是哪一个哲学流派,哪一种民族文化,生与死都是永恒的不可逃避的话题,时至今日,我们能够用科学解释生命诞生的旅程,却仍旧无法破除死亡的未知。成为一个生命,你首先拥有认识,继而塑造出灵魂,而死去之后,却只剩一副躯壳,那些代表生命的认知、灵魂、感情又当...
评分《爸爸去哪儿第三季》有一期备受争议的主题,就是“爸爸们”化上年老的皱纹妆,告诉孩子们有一天爸爸会变成这个容貌,还会死亡。很多观众认为,以这几个孩子的年龄,就教育“死亡课程”太过残忍。我一直觉得对生老病死的了解是一个随着年龄慢慢形成的自然过程,一般人也都...
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评分文/舒念 无论是哪一个哲学流派,哪一种民族文化,生与死都是永恒的不可逃避的话题,时至今日,我们能够用科学解释生命诞生的旅程,却仍旧无法破除死亡的未知。成为一个生命,你首先拥有认识,继而塑造出灵魂,而死去之后,却只剩一副躯壳,那些代表生命的认知、灵魂、感情又当...
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025