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发表于2024-11-26
Love Is a Story pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
羅伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美國認知心理學傢
著有暢銷專著《思維方式》《愛情心理學》
智力三元理論的建構者,也是首倡愛情三元論的心理學傢
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評分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
評分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
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Love Is a Story pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024