羅伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美國認知心理學傢
著有暢銷專著《思維方式》《愛情心理學》
智力三元理論的建構者,也是首倡愛情三元論的心理學傢
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
首先我应该先道歉,毕竟拿到《爱情是一个故事》这本书有一段时间了,当时正逢我们有一个项目正在研究两个人相处的各种模式。刚好就看到了这本书,总之就是很抱歉。 本书中大多数是以故事+论证的形式来讲述了一个又一个的故事。比如结婚很久的一对夫妻却无时无刻的争吵不休,还...
評分 評分爱情是一个故事 Robert J. Sternberg从1990年代中期转变到这种观点 爱情故事的三元素 情节 主题 人物 爱情故事的类型 合计五大类,廿六型故事 一、 不对称的故事 1 师生故事 诊断师生故事(Sternberg, 1999: 86-87) ※ 老师 1) 我发现自己在亲密关系中居老师角色 2) 我经常发觉...
評分初次读这本书,我以为是一本小说,读起来之后我才明白这是一本心理学的书,而且对爱情是一个根本的诠释,所以很多时候,更加容易用心去体会。 斯滕伯格用了“故事”这个词来代替我们理想中爱情的模样。实际上,每个人理想中的亲密关系跟爱情本身都存在差距。我们每个人都是带...
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评分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
评分為emotional game design大作業讀瞭26段戀愛故事。現在迴想,讀完並沒有卵用,該想不齣的依舊想不齣。越抽象越艱難,好想迴Jessie的課堂再來一遍。
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