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发表于2025-02-11
Love Is a Story pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
罗伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美国认知心理学家
著有畅销专著《思维方式》《爱情心理学》
智力三元理论的建构者,也是首倡爱情三元论的心理学家
用科学的方法解释感情
评分为emotional game design大作业读了26段恋爱故事。现在回想,读完并没有卵用,该想不出的依旧想不出。越抽象越艰难,好想回Jessie的课堂再来一遍。
评分用科学的方法解释感情
评分为emotional game design大作业读了26段恋爱故事。现在回想,读完并没有卵用,该想不出的依旧想不出。越抽象越艰难,好想回Jessie的课堂再来一遍。
评分用科学的方法解释感情
“没有人会认为我居然能够维持三十多年的婚姻。。。。。。。。。。” 这是从公众号推送的一篇文章中看到的,它吸引住了我的眼球,让我知道了斯滕伯格的大作——爱情是一个故事。乍一听书名,还以为是爱情小说,其实则不然,这是一本全新诠释爱情方面的心理类书籍,当然他不是寻...
评分这本书写的不错,虽然是心理学的类别,但是很好懂。 最主要的部分让你知道两个人在一起性格有多少相似并不是合不合适的关键,相较而言,对爱情的期待是否相似是否兼容更为关键。 这可能就是所谓的婚姻需要经营,因为你们都要把它经营成你们期待的样子,同样的方向才能和谐长久...
评分首先我应该先道歉,毕竟拿到《爱情是一个故事》这本书有一段时间了,当时正逢我们有一个项目正在研究两个人相处的各种模式。刚好就看到了这本书,总之就是很抱歉。 本书中大多数是以故事+论证的形式来讲述了一个又一个的故事。比如结婚很久的一对夫妻却无时无刻的争吵不休,还...
评分 评分首先我应该先道歉,毕竟拿到《爱情是一个故事》这本书有一段时间了,当时正逢我们有一个项目正在研究两个人相处的各种模式。刚好就看到了这本书,总之就是很抱歉。 本书中大多数是以故事+论证的形式来讲述了一个又一个的故事。比如结婚很久的一对夫妻却无时无刻的争吵不休,还...
Love Is a Story pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025