罗伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美国认知心理学家
著有畅销专著《思维方式》《爱情心理学》
智力三元理论的建构者,也是首倡爱情三元论的心理学家
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
爱情是一个故事 Robert J. Sternberg从1990年代中期转变到这种观点 爱情故事的三元素 情节 主题 人物 爱情故事的类型 合计五大类,廿六型故事 一、 不对称的故事 1 师生故事 诊断师生故事(Sternberg, 1999: 86-87) ※ 老师 1) 我发现自己在亲密关系中居老师角色 2) 我经常发觉...
评分叶芝有诗云:一提到爱情,我们便沉默不语。不知你读这句是什么感觉,我每次读到,只觉得那背后深藏一个默然、丰富又誓不肯吐露心声的回避爱情的故事。作为诗歌,这种意象当然很美。但若是生活本身,那实在是一个令人遗憾的故事。使人幸福的爱情不该是这幅模样。 爱情什么模样?...
评分生活就像这与爱情故事类似。你决不会知道,你目前所处的关系以及它所呈现的故事是不是你能找到的最佳选择。或许,还有更好的故事等着你。或许你目前的故事会有更好的表现形式。换句话说,与另一个人的关系也许适合你喜爱的另一个故事,或者能更好地表现出你目前的爱情故事。正...
评分叶芝有诗云:一提到爱情,我们便沉默不语。不知你读这句是什么感觉,我每次读到,只觉得那背后深藏一个默然、丰富又誓不肯吐露心声的回避爱情的故事。作为诗歌,这种意象当然很美。但若是生活本身,那实在是一个令人遗憾的故事。使人幸福的爱情不该是这幅模样。 爱情什么模样?...
评分首先我应该先道歉,毕竟拿到《爱情是一个故事》这本书有一段时间了,当时正逢我们有一个项目正在研究两个人相处的各种模式。刚好就看到了这本书,总之就是很抱歉。 本书中大多数是以故事+论证的形式来讲述了一个又一个的故事。比如结婚很久的一对夫妻却无时无刻的争吵不休,还...
后面太啰嗦,分4个大类,每类还分几个小类,记都记不住。不过学习这个观点就行了。
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!
评分用科学的方法解释感情
评分用科学的方法解释感情
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