罗伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美国认知心理学家
著有畅销专著《思维方式》《爱情心理学》
智力三元理论的建构者,也是首倡爱情三元论的心理学家
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
北京爱情故事里面一句“我们的生命中总会出现这样的一个瞬间,某事某地你会遇见某个人”时间,教会了我们很多东西。有些,我们曾经认为根本没有的,后来发现,它确确实实存在,有一些我们深信不疑的,后来却明白,根本就没有。 就如书中--这些故事从何而来?将去往何处?说通...
评分席慕蓉写过一首诗:“所有结局都已写好,所有泪水也已启程,却忽然忘了是怎样的一个开始 ,在那个古老的不再回来的夏日”,开篇第一句就显得很玄。故事的结局怎么能在尚未启程前写好呢?罗伯特·斯滕伯格说:可以。所谓爱情,不过就是一个个故事。 说是故事,可能还不尽然,说...
评分叶芝有诗云:一提到爱情,我们便沉默不语。不知你读这句是什么感觉,我每次读到,只觉得那背后深藏一个默然、丰富又誓不肯吐露心声的回避爱情的故事。作为诗歌,这种意象当然很美。但若是生活本身,那实在是一个令人遗憾的故事。使人幸福的爱情不该是这幅模样。 爱情什么模样?...
用科学的方法解释感情
评分为emotional game design大作业读了26段恋爱故事。现在回想,读完并没有卵用,该想不出的依旧想不出。越抽象越艰难,好想回Jessie的课堂再来一遍。
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!
评分用科学的方法解释感情
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!
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