具体描述
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
作者简介
罗伯特•斯滕伯格（Robert Sternberg）
美国认知心理学家
著有畅销专著《思维方式》《爱情心理学》
智力三元理论的建构者，也是首倡爱情三元论的心理学家
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“没有人会认为我居然能够维持三十多年的婚姻。。。。。。。。。。” 这是从公众号推送的一篇文章中看到的，它吸引住了我的眼球，让我知道了斯滕伯格的大作——爱情是一个故事。乍一听书名，还以为是爱情小说，其实则不然，这是一本全新诠释爱情方面的心理类书籍，当然他不是寻...
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用科学的方法解释感情
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱，一本书，一碗鸡汤，让我谈了25场恋爱！
评分后面太啰嗦，分4个大类，每类还分几个小类，记都记不住。不过学习这个观点就行了。
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱，一本书，一碗鸡汤，让我谈了25场恋爱！
评分斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱，一本书，一碗鸡汤，让我谈了25场恋爱！
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