圖書標籤: 人際關係 情緒管理 生活方式 吵架 個人管理 Love 英文原版 2019
发表于2024-11-07
The Heart of the Fight pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
In the midst of a disagreement, many couples ask themselves, "What are we really fighting about?" Sound familiar? As it turns out, breakups and divorce don't happen because couples fight, they happen because of how couples fight. In this much-needed book, Judith and Bob Wright-two married counselors and coaches with over thirty years of experience helping couples learn how to fight well-present their tried-and-true methods for exploring the emotions that underlie many relationship fights.
In this unique guide, you'll learn how to use disagreements as an opportunity to deepen your understanding of your partner, bring more intimacy to the relationship, strengthen your bond, and really learn from the conflicts and tensions that occur between you. You'll also learn how to navigate the fifteen most common fights couples have, including"the blame game," "dueling over dollars," "If you really loved me, you'd...," "told-you-so's," and more.
If you're ready to start fighting for your love, rather than against it, this book will show you how.
Judith Wright, EdD, is a world-class couples and lifestyles coach, media favorite, inspirational speaker, lifestyles expert, and corporate consultant. She is the award-winning author of Transformed! and best-selling author of There Must Be More Than This and The Soft Addiction Solution,. Wright has appeared on ABC's 20/20, Oprah, Good Morning America, and Today; and in over 600 print and radio interviews, including the New York Daily News, Chicago Tribune, Boston Herald, and San Francisco Chronicle. Wright is founder of the dynamic and innovative Wright Couples Program, and professor of transformational coaching and co-founder of the Wright Graduate University for the Realization of Human Potential.
10/3: (1) 吵架並不可怕 重要的是要通過吵架瞭解到對方的內在需求 錶麵上麵爭吵的事往往不是雙方爭吵起來的真正原因 真正原因是對方的內在需求沒有被另一方滿足 吵架隻是這種不滿的外在錶現 所以吵架不可怕 吵完卻沒相互坦誠真實需求纔可怕(2)尋找soul mate或是the chosen one 是一種一廂情願的迷思 世界上沒有跟你百分之百契閤是人 感情是雙方相互成長的過程 幫助另一方成為他/她想成為的那種人纔是它的實質 (3)童話故事的happy ending有很強的誤導性 錶麵上的模範夫妻 是雙方相互壓抑不滿所呈現的錶現 19/3:我居然看瞭19天????
評分用三天在醫院打點滴的時間讀完瞭全書,書的內容挺有啓發性的,雖然所用的心理學理論大多熟知,但是知道不等於會用,讓作者一點破纔覺豁然開朗。覺得是不可錯過的一本自我管理及人際關係管理(對,不限於搞對象!!!)的書。作者文筆也非常好讀易懂,讀起來很快,不足之處是有點重復和囉嗦,其實可以再精煉一些的,太囉嗦反而有點模糊重點。
評分用三天在醫院打點滴的時間讀完瞭全書,書的內容挺有啓發性的,雖然所用的心理學理論大多熟知,但是知道不等於會用,讓作者一點破纔覺豁然開朗。覺得是不可錯過的一本自我管理及人際關係管理(對,不限於搞對象!!!)的書。作者文筆也非常好讀易懂,讀起來很快,不足之處是有點重復和囉嗦,其實可以再精煉一些的,太囉嗦反而有點模糊重點。
評分Love is not about “live happily ever after”. Love is about “live deeply ever after”.
評分Love is not about “live happily ever after”. Love is about “live deeply ever after”.
The Heart of the Fight pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024