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No-Drama Discipline pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Discipline provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without causing a scene.
Defining the true meaning of the “d” word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you’ll discover
• strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy—and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart
• facts on child brain development—and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages
• the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child—no matter how extreme the behavior—while still setting clear and consistent limits
• tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair
• twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make—and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques
Complete with candid stories and playful illustrations that bring the authors’ suggestions to life, No-Drama Discipline shows you how to work with your child’s developing mind, peacefully resolve conflicts, and inspire happiness and strengthen resilience in everyone in the family.
Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., is clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, the founding co-director of the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center, and executive director of the Mindsight institute. A graduate of Harvard Medical School, Dr. Siegel is the author of several books, including the New York Times bestseller Brainstorm and the bestsellers Mindsight, Parenting from the Inside Out (with Mary Hartzell), and The Whole-Brain Child (with Tina Payne Bryson). Also the author of the internationally acclaimed professional texts The Mindful Brain and The Developing Mind, Dr. Siegel keynotes conferences and conducts workshops worldwide. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife.
Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., is the co-author (with Dan Siegel) of the bestselling The Whole-Brain Child, which has been translated into eighteen languages. She is a pediatric and adolescent psychotherapist, the director of parenting for the Mindsight Institute, and the child development specialist at Saint Mark’s School in Altadena, California. She keynotes conferences and conducts workshops for parents, educators, and clinicians all over the world. Dr. Bryson earned her Ph.D. from the University of Southern California, and she lives near Los Angeles with her husband and three children.
管理下屬和管理孩子通用。 CONNECT and REDIRECT!孩子長期的行為比短期的結果更重要。 Ask three Questions: 1) Why they behave like this? 2) What lesson I want to teach? 3) How could I teach this lesson? 不要讓孩子感到威脅,那會激起大腦的防禦本能,要努力與理智的大腦對話。 先與孩子進行同理心溝通,建立同理的連接。 Connection is not spoiling。 要具體情況具體對待,沒有可以通用的法則。 要首先讓自己放鬆,孩子纔能放鬆,比如坐到視綫比孩子還低的地方。 要建立規矩,但不要太苛刻。安全規矩一定要遵守,其他的規則可以視情況有一些例外
評分管理下屬和管理孩子通用。 CONNECT and REDIRECT!孩子長期的行為比短期的結果更重要。 Ask three Questions: 1) Why they behave like this? 2) What lesson I want to teach? 3) How could I teach this lesson? 不要讓孩子感到威脅,那會激起大腦的防禦本能,要努力與理智的大腦對話。 先與孩子進行同理心溝通,建立同理的連接。 Connection is not spoiling。 要具體情況具體對待,沒有可以通用的法則。 要首先讓自己放鬆,孩子纔能放鬆,比如坐到視綫比孩子還低的地方。 要建立規矩,但不要太苛刻。安全規矩一定要遵守,其他的規則可以視情況有一些例外
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評分管理下屬和管理孩子通用。 CONNECT and REDIRECT!孩子長期的行為比短期的結果更重要。 Ask three Questions: 1) Why they behave like this? 2) What lesson I want to teach? 3) How could I teach this lesson? 不要讓孩子感到威脅,那會激起大腦的防禦本能,要努力與理智的大腦對話。 先與孩子進行同理心溝通,建立同理的連接。 Connection is not spoiling。 要具體情況具體對待,沒有可以通用的法則。 要首先讓自己放鬆,孩子纔能放鬆,比如坐到視綫比孩子還低的地方。 要建立規矩,但不要太苛刻。安全規矩一定要遵守,其他的規則可以視情況有一些例外
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No-Drama Discipline pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024