Carol Tavris is a social psychologist, writer, and lecturer whose goal is to promote psychological science and critical thinking in improving our lives. She is coauthor, with Elliot Aronson, of "Mistakes Were Made (But Not by ME): Why we justify foolish beliefs, bad decisions, and hurtful acts," and, with Avrum Bluming, the forthcoming "Estrogen Matters." Her other major books include the landmark "Anger: The misunderstood emotion," a book well known for its critical look at unvalidated notions about the inevitability of anger and the need to "ventilate" it, and how anger can best be expressed constructively. She is also author of the award-winning "The Mismeasure of Woman: Why women are not the better sex, the inferior sex, or the opposite sex," and coauthor of two widely used textbooks, with Carole Wade, for introductory psychology. She has written hundreds of essays and book reviews on topics in psychological science, and is a highly regarded lecturer who has spoken to groups around the world, from New Zealand to Finland. She is a Fellow of the Association for Psychological Science and the Los Angeles Institute for the Humanities.
Elliot Aronson is a social psychologist and Professor Emeritus at the University of California at Santa Cruz and Distinguished Visiting Professor at Stanford University. He has previously taught at Harvard, the University of Texas and the University of Minnesota. As a researcher, he is best known for his groundbreaking research on social influence and persuasion as well as for the invention of the jigsaw classroom (a strategy for reducing prejudice in public schools).
He has written 22 books including The Social Animal, Age of Propaganda (with Anthony Pratkanis), Nobody Left to Hate, The Adventures of Ruthie and a Little Boy Named Grandpa (with his 7-year-oldgranddaughter, Ruth Aronson, and Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me (with Carol Tavris).
Aronson is the only person in the 120-year history of the American Psychological Association to have received all three of its highest awards: For Distinguished Research, Distinguished Teaching, and Distinguished Writing. In 1981, he was named Professor of the Year by the Council for the Advancement and Support of Education.
Among his other awards are the Gordon Allport prize for his contributions to inter-racial harmony and the William James Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Psychological Science (2007). Recently, his peers named him as one of the 100 most influential psychologists of the 20th Century.
He was elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and
has served as President of the Society of Personality and Social Psychology as well as President of the Western Psychological Association.
Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell?
Renowned social psychologists Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson take a compelling look into how the brain is wired for self-justification. When we make mistakes, we must calm the cognitive dissonance that jars our feelings of self-worth. And so we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility, restoring our belief that we are smart, moral, and right—a belief that often keeps us on a course that is dumb, immoral, and wrong.
Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception—how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.
从这本书就可以找到中国文化认为匪夷所思现象的线索。 死不认错--是家长制,集权主义的惯用手段,但几千年来中国人已经丧失了辨识能力(同时每个人自身已经染上了这种习气,有意无意地这样行事)。 西方用理性思维能力剖析这用恶,用民主、法制制衡这种恶。 这本书是需要中国大...
評分书中对加入兄弟会的研究表明,加入越是困难,加入成员对组织的认同度越是高。 宣泄假说被彻底推翻,与没有机会表达愤怒的人们相比,那些被允许表达自己对卡恩愤怒的人对他更加深恶痛绝。由于学生们认为自己已经给卡恩带来了麻烦,因此他们不得不为自己的行为辩护,让自己相...
評分不知道为什么这本书没有那么popular,I really feel it deserves more applause than it did. 语言诙谐有趣,内容深刻有见地。并不是象有些popular书一样列举几个anecdotal evidence就完事,而是不断能够检查语言的逻辑,事例背后的原因等等。很难一下描述清楚,我想这本书在...
評分亲密关系里的感情背叛 阿伟在一月前坦白了自己的那段情感出轨,但他发现,至今自己的女友小燕仍在生气,他们的每一次谈话最终都会转移到这件事上来。他每次与女友的目光接触,都会看到她的眼睛里充满了猜疑和痛苦。女友难道认识不到这只是一个小错误吗?他并不是这个星球上第...
評分错了,怎么办? 中国有句话,叫做“越描越黑”。说的是,犯错后越是争辩,效果越差。 《错不在我》分析了人犯错后,天然地倾向于自我辩护。 自我辩护的原动力,是认知相符。大脑想法、态度、信念、意见,与客观事实一致,就会出现愉快的情绪。如果不一致,就会出现“认知失调”...
Confirmation Bias,這個確實太強大瞭,要如何對抗呢?
评分#前半部分挺有啓發性的,後半部分有些重復瞭
评分Confirmation Bias,這個確實太強大瞭,要如何對抗呢?
评分不是簡單的因果關係
评分篇幅可以縮減1/3,為瞭論證自己的觀點,confirmation bias,self-justification,有些例子與論段比較牽強(夫妻關係的部分)。一個有益的觀點是,你與你的錯誤,應該分開來看,你的錯誤不能完全代錶你是誰(我覺得這個也取決於是什麼錯誤吧)
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