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发表于2025-02-26
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Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell?
Renowned social psychologists Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson take a compelling look into how the brain is wired for self-justification. When we make mistakes, we must calm the cognitive dissonance that jars our feelings of self-worth. And so we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility, restoring our belief that we are smart, moral, and right—a belief that often keeps us on a course that is dumb, immoral, and wrong.
Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception—how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.
Carol Tavris is a social psychologist, writer, and lecturer whose goal is to promote psychological science and critical thinking in improving our lives. She is coauthor, with Elliot Aronson, of "Mistakes Were Made (But Not by ME): Why we justify foolish beliefs, bad decisions, and hurtful acts," and, with Avrum Bluming, the forthcoming "Estrogen Matters." Her other major books include the landmark "Anger: The misunderstood emotion," a book well known for its critical look at unvalidated notions about the inevitability of anger and the need to "ventilate" it, and how anger can best be expressed constructively. She is also author of the award-winning "The Mismeasure of Woman: Why women are not the better sex, the inferior sex, or the opposite sex," and coauthor of two widely used textbooks, with Carole Wade, for introductory psychology. She has written hundreds of essays and book reviews on topics in psychological science, and is a highly regarded lecturer who has spoken to groups around the world, from New Zealand to Finland. She is a Fellow of the Association for Psychological Science and the Los Angeles Institute for the Humanities.
Elliot Aronson is a social psychologist and Professor Emeritus at the University of California at Santa Cruz and Distinguished Visiting Professor at Stanford University. He has previously taught at Harvard, the University of Texas and the University of Minnesota. As a researcher, he is best known for his groundbreaking research on social influence and persuasion as well as for the invention of the jigsaw classroom (a strategy for reducing prejudice in public schools).
He has written 22 books including The Social Animal, Age of Propaganda (with Anthony Pratkanis), Nobody Left to Hate, The Adventures of Ruthie and a Little Boy Named Grandpa (with his 7-year-oldgranddaughter, Ruth Aronson, and Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me (with Carol Tavris).
Aronson is the only person in the 120-year history of the American Psychological Association to have received all three of its highest awards: For Distinguished Research, Distinguished Teaching, and Distinguished Writing. In 1981, he was named Professor of the Year by the Council for the Advancement and Support of Education.
Among his other awards are the Gordon Allport prize for his contributions to inter-racial harmony and the William James Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Psychological Science (2007). Recently, his peers named him as one of the 100 most influential psychologists of the 20th Century.
He was elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and
has served as President of the Society of Personality and Social Psychology as well as President of the Western Psychological Association.
不是简单的因果关系
评分原本希望这本书讲更多的关于cognitive dissonance的,全书还是太浅,只讲到sefl-justification部分,例子太话唠。大约读第一章和最后一章即可。
评分#前半部分挺有启发性的,后半部分有些重复了
评分花了一个礼拜零零碎碎的时间翻完了 不推荐 整本书只需要看前两章就可以了 后面都是不断重复加各种实例 喜欢类似心理学内容的人可以看 thinking fast and slow 绝对经典 中文版也有的
评分不如叫做#self-justification的实例大全#…后面几章说来说去都是一个意思…换了不同方面的例子而已…有点啰嗦和冗长…没有看到足够多的实验研究不开心…还有…把所有的问题都归结为self-justification 是不是也太简单化了…#两个人最初的选择也许都是迷迷糊糊地做出的,然后一步一步因为self-justification而从金字塔尖端走下,最后变成完全不同的两个人
读书经验告诉我,读书不但要看书的内容,还需要留意作者、流派等等一系列信息,这样才能获得更丰富的认知。《社会性动物》和《绝非偶然》已经让我受益匪浅,所以看到《错不在我》的作者是阿伦森的时候,我便毫不犹豫地买下来,事实证明,这本书确实值得一读。 “错不在我”,...
评分人最困难的事莫过于认错。我指的是自觉的、诚心诚意的认错。用刀架着你脖子的不算,用枪抵着你的脑袋也不算,老婆扬言不要你上床、上司威胁要炒你鱿鱼……这类被迫的情形都不算。 好在所有的难事情都有人研究,替我们支招。当我读到美国心理学家卡罗尔...
评分《错不下我》这本书,是我近期读来,最好的一本书之一。里面的内容从解释为什么“骗子、傻子、歹徒会容忍自己的行为,到解释自我辩护的原动力,到一些具体的场景之下,”自我辩护“的各种模样(诸如司法体系、婚姻、创伤、战争等),到最后究竟该如何放弃自我辩护。 自我辩护...
评分因为犯过错,因为还在错误中煎熬,因为将来不可避免得还会犯错,所以我会对人类行差踏错的根源以及犯错后又会如何应对比较好奇。 近来陆续读了两本与错误有关的书,一本是普利策新闻奖得主Joseph T. Hallinan的《Why We Make Mistakes》, 用丰富的事例举证了人类怎样思考,怎...
评分不知道为什么这本书没有那么popular,I really feel it deserves more applause than it did. 语言诙谐有趣,内容深刻有见地。并不是象有些popular书一样列举几个anecdotal evidence就完事,而是不断能够检查语言的逻辑,事例背后的原因等等。很难一下描述清楚,我想这本书在...
Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025