VUl<br >Foreword<br >I first considered writing a book on pregnancy in New Zealand as long<br >ago as 1985, when I was pregnant with my second child. The idea was<br >suggested to me, and I was immediately taken with it, remembering how<br >many things I had wanted to know when I was pregnant for the first<br >time. But it got put to one side as I struggled with the nausea and<br >tiredness which always accompanies my pregnancies, and it was not until<br >my third baby was three months old that I seriously reconsidered the<br >proposal. By then I had had several years experience as a doctor, and as a<br >mother, as a worker and as a home parent, and I found myself<br >increasingly fielding requests at work and telephone calls at home from<br >women seeking advice about pregnancy.<br > How do I get pregnant? What books can I read? Could you suggest<br >some doctors to choose from? Will I be able to keep working? Can I try<br >milk for morning sickness? Should I have an amniocentesis? How many<br >nappies will I buy? Is it worthwhile buying a front pack? Is orgasm all<br >right during pregnancy? Am I in labour? Do you think the waters could<br >have broken? No subject was immune from the list. Sometimes I was<br >surprised that women didn t know some of these things, but more often I<br >was surprised that they felt that they needed to come to me for an<br >answer. Was there no written material, no handbook in which all this<br >information was made available?<br > And I remembered where I had looked for the answers to some of<br > these questions myself. Medical textbooks certainly had information on<br > anatomy and physiology, but were no help when it came to dealing with<br > the tiredness of early pregnancy, or clothes for a new baby. Antenatal<br > classes provided some written leaflets and booklets, but they were<br > piecemeal, often dealing with only one subject, and they were easily lost<br > or mislaid. Books written by overseas authors were recommended, and<br > some of them were very good. But they could offer no advice on choosing<br > antenatal care in New Zealand, or on using a sheepskin in a bassinet.<br > Since that time, the Department of Health has put out a booklet called<br > Your Pregnancy, which is available to every pregnant woman m New<br > Zealand. l~~is good, but necessarily brief, including only the most basic<br > information.<br > I still felt there was a need for a much more comprehensive book for<br > New Zealand women - and that if I was going to do it, I should do so<br > while the world of pregnancy, breast feeding, and small children was still<br > part of my immediate experience. So, I started writing, not literally on<br ><br >
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这本书的排版和设计简直是一股清流。市面上很多医学或育儿书籍,内容是信息量大,但阅读起来就像啃干巴巴的教科书,读几页就想合上。但这本书不一样,它的视觉体验极其舒适。大量的留白,清晰的字体分级,以及那些穿插其中的、充满生活气息的插画——它们不是那种生硬的解剖图,而是非常温馨的场景描绘。我尤其喜欢它在章节末尾设置的“回顾与反思”小框,通常会引用一句著名诗歌或者一段哲思,让你在信息爆炸的阅读中能有一个片刻的停顿,去感受此刻的奇妙。这种对阅读体验的重视,让我即使在孕晚期疲惫不堪时,也愿意拿起它来阅读几页,而不是觉得它是一种负担。它将严肃的知识包裹在一种非常柔和、充满美感的载体中,让学习本身变成了一种享受,而不是不得不完成的任务。
评分这本书最让我感到震撼的是它对“分娩选择”的深入探讨。在我的文化圈子里,似乎总有一种默认的“标准生产方式”,但这本书却以极其中立和客观的态度,细致地介绍了从自然分娩到各种干预措施,再到剖腹产的每一个细节、风险评估和恢复过程。它没有倾向于任何一种选择,而是将知情同意权完全交还给了读者。它甚至邀请了不同生产经历的女性分享她们的故事,这些故事涵盖了顺产的喜悦、侧切的恢复挑战,以及剖腹产后重新适应身体的挣扎。阅读这些真实的声音,让我摆脱了外界的灌输,真正开始思考“对我来说,什么是最好的选择”。它提供的数据和案例非常扎实,让你有底气去和医生进行平等的、有建设性的对话。这种授权感,让我对即将到来的分娩多了一份掌控感,而不是单纯地听天由命。它真正做到了帮助我们成为自己孕期旅程的决策者。
评分作为一名新手爸爸,说实话,我一开始对“参与”这件事有点手足无措。我总觉得怀孕是妻子的事,我能做的无非是多做点家务,听听她的抱怨。但这本书的视角转换得非常巧妙,它有一部分是专门写给准爸爸看的,这让我感到非常惊喜。它没有用那种空泛的“你应该多关心她”的口号,而是提供了非常实用的“行动指南”。比如,书中详细描述了孕期各个阶段丈夫可以参与的产检项目,以及如何用具体的话语来表达支持而不是敷衍。我采纳了书里一个建议,开始学习记录妻子的孕期日记,不是写她每天吃了什么,而是记录她那些细微的情绪变化和身体感受,这让我在交流时能更切中要点。通过这本书,我明白了爸爸的角色不只是后勤保障,更是情感上的“锚”。它让我学会了如何成为一个更积极、更具同理心的伴侣,而不是一个旁观者。这种对“伴侣关系”的关注,在很多同类书籍中是缺失的,非常宝贵。
评分我必须强调这本书在“实用性”上的极致体现。我是一个对细节有强迫症的人,尤其在涉及到健康和安全问题时。很多孕期书籍会列出“可以吃”和“不能吃”的清单,但这本书做得更进一步,它会解释“为什么”不能吃,以及在不同孕周,身体对某些营养素的需求侧重点有何不同。比如,关于咖啡因的摄入量,它不仅给出了一个数字,还用图表展示了不同饮料中咖啡因的含量对比,让我可以非常直观地进行日常选择。更赞的是,它对各种产检项目进行了非常细致的流程预演。从挂号、缴费到检查本身,甚至包括等待时间可能需要准备的书籍或零食,都有所提及。这极大地缓解了我对未知医疗流程的焦虑。我感觉自己仿佛提前参加了一次“产检模拟演习”,走进医院时,内心是笃定而从容的。这种将理论知识转化为日常可操作步骤的能力,是这本书最强大的武器。
评分这本书简直是为我量身定做的!怀孕初期那会儿,我整个人都处在一种既兴奋又茫然的状态,各种信息像潮水一样涌过来,让人应接不暇。我尝试着去网上搜索,但那些零散的帖子和论坛讨论往往角度单一,而且真假难辨。直到我翻开这本厚厚的指南,我才感到脚下仿佛有了一块坚实的基石。它不是那种高高在上说教的语气,反而更像是一位经验丰富、温柔耐心的邻家长辈,一步一步地引导你穿越这个奇妙的旅程。尤其让我印象深刻的是它对孕期情绪波动的处理。我记得有段时间,因为一点小事就控制不住地想哭,那种无助感非常强烈。我以为这是我个人的问题,但书中竟然专门用了一整章节来解析孕期荷尔蒙对心理的影响,并且提供了具体的情绪管理技巧,比如简单的呼吸练习和建立支持系统的方法。读到那里,我简直是热泪盈眶,感觉自己终于被理解了。这种深度和细节,远超我之前接触到的任何材料。它不仅关注身体的变化,更将孕期视为一个身心灵共同成长的过程,非常全面和人性化。
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