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From Publishers Weekly Sent away by her parents so that she can recover from boyfriend problems and they can sort out their shaken marriage， 15-year-old Karen is spending a hot summer vacation in New Franklin， Ill.a small "Midwestern town bisected by the B & O tracks"where her chic schoolteacher aunt Augusta， 35， lives alone in the tall brick ancestral manse. Karen and Augusta talk with laconic awkwardness about love and growing up; Augusta busily hammers away on a garden gazebo that eventually collapses. Furnace repairman Jerry， one of Augusta's many lovers， comes to help and brings along a new beau for Karen， a youth named George. But Karen's edgy self-consciousness is hard to believe: she is embarrassed， for instance， to be seen buying Seventeen magazine. Pei's notion of kid talk is bland and cliche-ridden. Unfortunately， the action trudges on with drowsy slowness. Copyright 1986 Reed Business Information， Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. From School Library Journal YA Karen Moss， at odds with her parents and brooding over the loss of a boyfriend， spends her fifteenth summer in a small Illinois town with her 35-year-old Aunt Augusta， an eccentric English teacher， compulsive baseball fan， nonstop talker， and the loving caretaker of the family's deteriorating Victorian home. The two women spend the sultry summer engaged in various home improvement projects， driving lessons， baseball games， and endless conversations in which Karen is appalled and awed by tales of her Aunt's love affairs. Karen meets George， who is bright， talented， and lonely. He becomes Karen's summer romance and the focus of much of her preoccupation with love and sex. Although the setting for the novel is the 1950s， Karen's struggle to understand her loving (if less than perfect) parents， her unconventional aunt， her sensitive and troubled boyfriend， and her own unpredictable emotions is a process toward self knowledge that today's readers will understand. Family Resemblances is not as subtle nor as profound as The Finishing School (Viking， 1985)， which deals with a similar theme， but most young adults will find it more accessible than Godwin's book. Jackie Gropman， Fairfax County Public Library， Va.Copyright 1986 Reed Business Information， Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. See all Editorial Reviews
Family Resemblances This collection of essays delves into the intricate tapestry of human connection, exploring the subtle yet profound ways in which our relationships shape our identities and perceptions of the world. The author, a keen observer of human nature, navigates the complexities of familial bonds, friendships, and even fleeting encounters, unearthing the shared traits, unspoken understandings, and inherited patterns that bind us together. The book opens with a poignant exploration of childhood memories, where the author revisits the formative experiences that laid the groundwork for their understanding of belonging. Through vivid anecdotes and introspective musings, they paint a picture of a world viewed through the innocent yet perceptive eyes of a child, where the seemingly mundane details of daily life held profound significance. The essays in this section touch upon the indelible impact of parental figures, the boisterous camaraderie of siblings, and the early lessons learned within the confines of home. The author skillfully evokes the sensory details of these memories – the scent of a grandmother's baking, the warmth of a father's embrace, the echo of laughter in familiar rooms – rendering them palpable to the reader. As the narrative progresses, the focus shifts to the evolving dynamics of familial relationships during adolescence and adulthood. The author candidly discusses the inevitable shifts in perspective, the moments of both profound understanding and frustrating distance that characterize these years. They examine the ways in which family members, despite their shared history, can diverge in their beliefs, aspirations, and life choices. The essays here grapple with themes of independence, the search for individual identity, and the delicate art of maintaining connection while forging one's own path. The author’s reflections on navigating parental expectations, sibling rivalries, and the complexities of adult family gatherings are rendered with a disarming honesty that resonates deeply. The concept of "family" is further expanded to encompass friendships, those chosen connections that often provide solace, support, and a mirror to our own evolving selves. The author reflects on the enduring power of long-term friendships, the serendipitous encounters that bloom into cherished bonds, and the bittersweet farewells that mark the passage of time. The essays explore the unique language of friendship – the inside jokes, the shared silences, the unwavering loyalty – and the profound influence these relationships have on our emotional well-being and sense of self. The author’s examination of these platonic bonds is as insightful as their exploration of blood ties, revealing the parallel journeys of growth and understanding that occur within both spheres. A significant portion of the book is dedicated to the idea of inherited traits, not just in the genetic sense, but in the subtler manifestations of temperament, humor, and even habits that seem to pass down through generations. The author playfully identifies these "family resemblances" in themselves and their loved ones, offering a humorous yet insightful perspective on the ways we unconsciously echo those who came before us. These essays are filled with charming observations, such as the shared quirks of a particular way of laughing, a characteristic gesture, or a predilection for certain types of stories. The author uses these observations to illustrate the invisible threads that connect us to our lineage, even when we might feel most distinct. The author also explores the concept of inherited narratives and the stories we tell ourselves and each other about our families. These narratives, whether conscious or unconscious, shape our understanding of our past and influence our present actions. The essays delve into the power of storytelling within families, the myths and legends that are passed down, and the ways in which these narratives can both empower and constrain individuals. The author examines how societal expectations and cultural influences also play a role in shaping these familial stories, leading to a rich and nuanced exploration of identity formation. Beyond the immediate circle of family and friends, the book broadens its scope to consider the broader sense of community and belonging. The author contemplates the shared experiences that can forge bonds between strangers, the collective memories that unite a generation, and the enduring human need for connection. These essays offer a more expansive view of "family," encompassing the shared humanity that transcends individual relationships. Throughout the collection, the author’s writing style is characterized by its warmth, wit, and lyrical prose. They possess a remarkable ability to distill profound insights from everyday observations, transforming the ordinary into the extraordinary. The essays are not merely personal reflections; they are invitations to the reader to engage in their own introspection, to examine the intricate web of relationships that define their lives. The author’s voice is at once deeply personal and universally relatable, drawing the reader into a shared exploration of the human condition. The book’s exploration of "family resemblances" extends to the subtle ways in which we learn from, and are influenced by, the people around us. It’s about the shared glances that convey understanding without words, the unconscious mirroring of gestures and speech patterns, and the inherited wisdom that is passed down through observation and example. The author doesn't shy away from the more challenging aspects of these connections – the misunderstandings, the disagreements, the moments of emotional distance. Instead, they examine these complexities with a thoughtful and empathetic lens, recognizing that these too are integral to the richness of human relationships. The author also delves into the idea of inherited perspectives. How do our parents' views on the world, their fears and hopes, subtly shape our own? How do the experiences of previous generations leave an imprint on our collective consciousness, influencing our decisions and our understanding of our place in the world? These are not necessarily conscious inheritances, but rather deeply ingrained ways of seeing and interacting with life. The book suggests that by understanding these inherited perspectives, we can gain a deeper self-awareness and a greater ability to make conscious choices about the kind of individuals we want to be. Moreover, the concept of "family resemblances" is explored in the context of shared values and traditions. While outward appearances and superficial similarities might be the most obvious forms of resemblance, the author argues that the deeper connections lie in the shared moral compass, the inherited ethical frameworks, and the traditions that provide a sense of continuity and identity. These can be religious beliefs, cultural practices, or simply a shared understanding of what constitutes a good life. The book illustrates how these shared values, even when expressed differently, can create a powerful sense of belonging and shared purpose. The author’s keen eye for detail is evident in their descriptions of shared habits and routines. The way a family gathers for meals, the rituals surrounding holidays, the unspoken rules that govern social interactions within a group – these all contribute to the unique "resemblances" that define a family unit. These are the seemingly small things that, when accumulated, create a profound sense of familiarity and shared history. The book invites readers to recognize these patterns in their own lives and to appreciate the subtle yet powerful ways in which they connect us to others. The collection also touches upon the idea of inherited legacies, both positive and negative. The author acknowledges that families pass down not only strengths and virtues but also vulnerabilities and challenges. The essays offer a sensitive exploration of how past traumas or unresolved conflicts can cast long shadows, influencing the dynamics of subsequent generations. However, the overarching tone of the book is one of hope and resilience, suggesting that by acknowledging and understanding these legacies, we can break free from limiting patterns and forge a more positive future. Ultimately, Family Resemblances is a profound meditation on the enduring power of human connection. It is a book that celebrates the myriad ways in which we are shaped by those around us, while also affirming our individuality and our capacity for growth and change. Through its insightful observations, heartfelt anecdotes, and lyrical prose, the collection offers a timeless exploration of what it means to belong, to be understood, and to carry within us the echoes of those who have come before. It is a testament to the intricate dance of shared experiences and individual journeys that define the human family.
