《Positive Discipline: The First Three Years(生命最重要的前三年:尼爾森0-3歲積極訓導法)》內容簡介：何謂“積極訓導法”，積極訓導法是一項在美國頗受歡迎與贊譽的傢庭與學校教育課程，旨在培養孩子如何在其所處的環境中變得更加充滿責任、相互尊重而富有智慧。它指導成人（父母、老師、看護人及其他人）以一種相互尊重和鼓勵的態度，教給孩子重要的社會與生活技能。近期研究錶明，兒童從齣生起便被與外界“硬性”連接到一起，那些能感受到自己與他們的生活群體、傢庭、學校融為一體的孩子，往往很少會齣現不良行為。

高效積極訓導的五個標準：

1.幫助孩子感受到與外部的聯係（歸屬感與重要性）；

2.相互尊敬與鼓勵（善良而堅定），

3.保持長期的有效性（衡量孩子的所思、所感、所學以及對自己及其世界的決定）；

4.教給孩子重要的社會與生活技能（尊重、關心他人、解決問題、閤作及為傢庭、學校和社區作些力所能及之事），

5.引導孩子發現其纔乾（鼓勵孩子建設性地運用個人權力與自主權）。

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