《Positive Discipline: The First Three Years(生命最重要的前三年:尼尔森0-3岁积极训导法)》内容简介：何谓“积极训导法”，积极训导法是一项在美国颇受欢迎与赞誉的家庭与学校教育课程，旨在培养孩子如何在其所处的环境中变得更加充满责任、相互尊重而富有智慧。它指导成人（父母、老师、看护人及其他人）以一种相互尊重和鼓励的态度，教给孩子重要的社会与生活技能。近期研究表明，儿童从出生起便被与外界“硬性”连接到一起，那些能感受到自己与他们的生活群体、家庭、学校融为一体的孩子，往往很少会出现不良行为。

高效积极训导的五个标准：

1.帮助孩子感受到与外部的联系（归属感与重要性）；

2.相互尊敬与鼓励（善良而坚定），

3.保持长期的有效性（衡量孩子的所思、所感、所学以及对自己及其世界的决定）；

4.教给孩子重要的社会与生活技能（尊重、关心他人、解决问题、合作及为家庭、学校和社区作些力所能及之事），

5.引导孩子发现其才干（鼓励孩子建设性地运用个人权力与自主权）。

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