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Amazon.com Self-preservation did not come instinctually to Irish journalist Nuala O Faolain. One of 9 children--her mother had 13 pregnancies in all--she grew up in the 1940s and 50s in a defeated Dublin household. Her reporter father seems to have spent his time and money， and even love， elsewhere--and as the family grew more isolated and unable to cope， alcohol became her mother s only way out. "One of the stories of my life has been the working out in it of her powerful and damaging example in everything，" the author admits， "Nothing mattered to her except passion." Some of O Faolain s siblings emphatically didn t make it， but she was lucky to find refuge in books. They have been a defense， a comfort， and a delight. Does her memoir then follow the standard rags-to-self-acceptance trajectory? Are you wondering if perhaps you can give it a miss， and in fact send the entire genre on a well-deserved vacation? Don t. Are You Somebody (the title unaccountably lost a question mark somewhere between the Irish and American editions) offers a wrenching account of childhood and a highly provocative take on the sexual and professional situation of Irish women. Though literature made O Faolain， the male-dominated literary life and industry certainly didn t， and she now gives it more than a few body blows. It was a world in which writing and drink mattered far more than women: "The literary Dublin I saw lied to women as a matter of course and conspired against the demands of wives and mistresses.... Women either had to make no demands， and be liked， or be much larger than life， and feared." Irish women didn t seem to know to look for， let alone demand， equality. O Faolain miraculously avoided pregnancy; but others were not so blessed. "Lives were ruined at that time， thousands and thousands of them， quite casually.... They were hotly pursued， and half longed to yield， but they were not able to defend themselves against pregnancy， and they were destroyed if they got pregnant." For all her energy and ambition and good fortune (and she needed this trio to jump her family s "sinking ship" and avoid getting pregnant)， O Faolain fell for the cant that she must marry， have children， and serve. Some will be initially shocked by her assertion that she was lucky never to have had a child. "Childbearing， along with bad education， relationships that managed to be simultaneously all-absorbing and rewarding， and financial dependence--these were the enemies of promise. But that s not why I m glad; I didn t think of myself as having promise. I m glad because under the old system it was so easy to rear children badly. The child wouldn t have properly survived." Yet the 70s enabled her to break out of the assumptions and realities of Irish women s lives， not to mention her yearning to be like "the troubled， rich， English upper-class people in books." At the end of her memoir， O Faolain knows she finally is， in fact， somebody. Still， those who don t recognize her see her only as a single， middle-aged woman. Like children， such individuals "aren t supposed to kick up." Thanks to this bracing book， the author gets to permanently do so. The writing exercise has answered some of her questions and some of her fears， but O Faolain is too honest not to admit that for others there is no response or cure. She leaves us wanting to know more about her life but grateful that she has allowed us in. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. From Library Journal Irish Times columnist O Faolain seeks to understand the events of her life by baring her soul to the world in a memoir of her experiences with love and loneliness and her journey of self-discovery. This autobiography is unlike most others in that O Faolain s frank and open examination speaks to both American and European audiences. Transcending her rural Irish childhood (one of nine children， an alcoholic mother， and a philandering father)， she tries to find purpose through reading， education， and a career rather than the traditional life of wife and mother. Despite winning scholarships to University College， Dublin; the University of Hull; and， finally， Oxford University， she drifts in and out of relationships， believing that her salvation will come with marriage and motherhood. We travel with her through the intellectual scene in Dublin during the 1950s and the yet traditional Oxford of the 1960s， against the backdrop of the rising feminist movement. O Faolain is simply swept along， asserting herself but not really knowing why or to what end. Alcoholism and depression take their toll， but she fights her way back. The author speaks of events and predicaments that are universal: the need for purpose in life; the search for satisfaction; and the desire we all have to be somebody. Donada Peters s Irish brogue adds just the right air of authenticity to make this a rich and wonderful listening experience. Poignantly honest and profoundly memorable， this program is highly recommended for all public and academic libraries.AGloria Maxwell， Penn Valley Community Coll.， Kansas City， MO Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information， Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. See all Editorial Reviews