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What's wrong with being a "people pleaser?" Plenty! "A fascinating book...If you struggle with where, when, and how to draw the line between your own desires and the demands of others, buy this book!"--Kay Redfield Jamison, bestselling author of An Unquiet Mind and Night Falls Fast People pleasers are not just nice people who go overboard trying to make everyone happy. Those who suffer from the Disease to Please are people who say "Yes" when they really want to say "No." For them, the uncontrollable need for the elusive approval of others is an addiction. Their debilitating fears of anger and confrontation force them to use "niceness" and "people-pleasing" as self-defense camouflage. Featured on NBC's "Today," The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that "people pleasing" is a benign problem. Best-selling author and frequent "Oprah" guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers clear, positive, practical, and easily do-able steps toward recovery. Begin with a simple but revealing quiz to discover what type of people-pleaser you are. Then learn how making even small changes to any single portion of the Disease to Please Triangle - involving your thoughts, feelings, and behavior - will cause a dramatic, positive and long-lasting change to the overall syndrome. As a recovered peoplepleaser, you will finally see that a balanced way of living that takes others into consideration but puts the emphasis first on pleasing yourself and gaining your own approval is the clearest path to health and happiness.
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哈丽雅特·布莱克
有逾25年的执业临床心理医生和管理顾问经验。她创作了许多畅销的心理自助类书籍，包括纽约《时代》杂志的畅销书《取悦症：不懂拒绝的老好人》和《谁在操纵你》等。
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文 | 李伟诚 001 众所周知 ，我是一个老好人，而这本书像是给我度身打造的一样，取悦症最痛苦的不只是身体累，更多的是心里累。读完此书，我对老好人这个概念和解法有了更深刻的认知。 002 取悦症分为三种类型：认知型、习惯型和情感逃避型，这3种大多是同时出现，只是其中的...
评分大家早上好，欢迎打开剽悍晨读，每天进步一点点，坚持带来大改变。今天是2018年2月26日，我们要给大家分享的书是《取悦症：不懂拒绝的老好人》。 这本书是由有25年经验的临床心理医生哈丽雅特·布莱克所写。我们已经在2017年6月18日的晨读中，介绍过取悦症的成因和拒绝技巧。这...
评分很多老好人看似是对每个人都很好,其实其在内心是忽略了每个人的. 我们只有先用心对待自己,才可能更有效地帮助他人. 作为一个人,我们很多时候都在服从,在丧失了自我之后,我们已经丢掉了精神的最有效寄托. 我们应该从自己的内心开始, 通过本书的分析来引导自己走出来.
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取悦症
评分为了得到父母的爱，避免被拒绝或抛弃，孩子只好将自己原本的需求和愿望压低，让它们变得不再重要，转而去努力实现父母那些明确提出的或隐含的期望，甚至内化这些期望，以父母的需求来替代自己的。渐渐地，他们就会成为讨好父母的小孩。
评分取悦症
评分要学会对事不对人
评分为了得到父母的爱，避免被拒绝或抛弃，孩子只好将自己原本的需求和愿望压低，让它们变得不再重要，转而去努力实现父母那些明确提出的或隐含的期望，甚至内化这些期望，以父母的需求来替代自己的。渐渐地，他们就会成为讨好父母的小孩。
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