圖書標籤: Relationship 心理學 婚戀 生活 兩性 科普 社科 婚前須知
发表于2024-09-17
Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
Gary Chapman writes, "Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage." No wonder the divorce rate hovers around fifty percent. Bestselling author and marriage counselor Gary Chapman hopes to change that with his newest book. Gary, with more than 35 years of counseling couples, believes that divorce is the lack of preparation for marriage and the failure to learn the skills of working together as intimate teammates. So he put together this practical little book, packed with wisdom and tips that will help many develop the loving, supportive and mutually beneficial marriage men and women long for. It's the type of information Gary himself wished he had before he got married. This is not a book simply to be read. It is a book to be experienced. The material lends itself to heart-felt discussions by dating or engaged couples. To jump-start the exchanges, each short chapter includes insightful "Talking it Over" questions and suggestions. And, the book includes information on interactive websites as well as books that will enhance the couples experience.Dr. Chapman even includes a thought-provoking appendix. By understanding and balancing the five key aspects of life, dating couples can experience a healthy dating relationship. A revealing learning exercise for dating couples is included at the end.
蓋瑞•查普曼博士(Dr.Gary Chapman)是享譽全球的婚戀輔導專傢,他的代錶作《愛的五種語言》曾長時間高居《紐約時報》暢銷書排行榜榜首,全球熱銷400多萬冊。查普曼博士具有豐富的輔導經驗和專業的輔導技巧,在美國各地舉辦婚姻研習會,定期為已婚者做婚姻輔導,他的講座和書籍改變瞭無數人的傢庭生活。他也是國內已經翻譯齣版的暢銷書《愛的五種語言》及《兒童愛之語》《單身愛之語》《心靈之約》《道歉的五種語言》等書的作者。
之前以為這是一本類似心靈雞湯的書,其實不然。本書提供瞭很實際的案例和指導,後附嚴謹的citation,值得好好研讀。
評分其實不僅僅是結婚前應該看,情侶們也應該看的。一段好的婚姻或者戀情,不是隻要相互喜歡就好瞭的,我們還要有意識地去做很多事情,而且很多時候這個“做”我們有很多錯誤的理解。這本書試圖close我們在這點上的gap。不知道這本書在同類型的書中的好壞,但是讀上一本這個類型的書確實十分必要的。
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协商 尊重 共识 在解决分歧中最常用的一个词就是“妥协”,但是妥协对婚姻来说,不但可说是积极的,而且还是非常必要的。它意味着寻求共识。它要求夫妻双方乐意放弃一些自我,从而保证婚姻的和谐。 幸福的婚姻永远不会是“按我的心意生活”,而是“按我们的心意生活”。...
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評分【2016读书手札·12】Gary.Chapman《但愿婚前我知道-12件预备婚姻的大事》:即将恋爱、结婚以及离婚的,想要拥有更好亲密关系的.....都该花1小时看一下,花2小时和爱人探讨一下,然后用一生来践行。【如果实在懒得看,麻烦我亲爱的朋友们花一分钟默读以下12条】 1.彼此爱恋不足...
評分协商 尊重 共识 在解决分歧中最常用的一个词就是“妥协”,但是妥协对婚姻来说,不但可说是积极的,而且还是非常必要的。它意味着寻求共识。它要求夫妻双方乐意放弃一些自我,从而保证婚姻的和谐。 幸福的婚姻永远不会是“按我的心意生活”,而是“按我们的心意生活”。...
評分Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024