How to Win Friends and Influence People is the first, and still the finest, book of its kind. One of the best-known motivational books in history, Dale Carnegie's groundbreaking work has sold millions of copies, has been translated into almost every known written language, and has helped countless people succeed in both their business and personal lives. First published in 1937, Carnegie's advice has remained relevant for generations because he addresses timeless questions about the fine art of getting along with people: How can you make people like you instantly? How can you persuade people to agree with you? How can you speak frankly to people without giving offense? The ability to read others and successfully navigate any social situation is critically important to those who want to get a job, keep a job, or simply expand their social network. The core principles of this book, originally written as a practical, working handbook on human relations, are proven effective. Carnegie explains the fundamentals of handling people with a positive approach; how to make people like you and want to help you; how to win people to your way of thinking without conflict; and how to be the kind of leader who inspires quality work, increased productivity, and high morale. As Carnegie explains, the majority of our success in life depends on our ability to communicate and manage personal relationships effectively, whether at home or at work. How to Win Friends and Influence People will help you discover and develop the people skills you need to live well and prosper.
Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (originally Carnagey until 1922 and possibly somewhat later) (November 24, 1888 ??? November 1, 1955) was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking and interpersonal skills. Born in poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, first published in 1936, a massive bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote a biography of Abraham Lincoln, titled Lincoln the Unknown, as well as several other books.
Carnegie was an early proponent of what is now called responsibility assumption, although this only appears minutely in his written work.[citation needed] One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's reaction to them.
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评分本来书里很多精准的对人性的解剖我都非常欣赏,准备一读再读的,但是,书中的举例几乎都是某某某将军、某某某总统、某某某总裁……给人一种强烈的距离感和成功学鸡汤。虽然都是真实事迹,但莫名就觉得很刻意,有点做作,有种,我教你怎么成功的感觉。 对比同类型的《少有人走...
评分本来书里很多精准的对人性的解剖我都非常欣赏,准备一读再读的,但是,书中的举例几乎都是某某某将军、某某某总统、某某某总裁……给人一种强烈的距离感和成功学鸡汤。虽然都是真实事迹,但莫名就觉得很刻意,有点做作,有种,我教你怎么成功的感觉。 对比同类型的《少有人走...
评分介绍演讲与说话技巧的书,培养自信,克服恐惧,面对人群能够自然流畅而有条理地表达自己思想观点。作者认为对人们表达不佳的根治应从“心”开始。鼓足勇气,相信自己,积极准备,演讲或其他场合在众人面前像平时一样心平气和地讲话。即便没什么机会公开发表演说,经过练习提升...
开始,我还想是谁在三十年代就写出了如此的励志书,先驱啊。每一个论点都用神奇的小故事支撑,名人奋斗史什么的,可以说是今天鸡汤成功学的鼻祖了。后来才明白,还真是祖师爷,卡内基嘛! 说看过,也不全看过。上中学的时候,我看过一本卡内基《社交必胜术》,里面有几个小故事和这个本书里的有交叉重复而已。小时候看卡内基,觉得真神奇;现在看来,没有什么不是一名三十岁职场人已经懂得的道理,其实老祖宗早就说过八百遍啦: “上善若水,水善利万物而不争,处众人之所恶,故几于道。居善地,心善渊,与善仁,言善信,正善治,事善能,动善时。夫唯不争,故无尤。” 最重要的还是诚意。如果缺了诚意,欣赏变奉承,谦虚变骄傲,友善变伪善。但如果直抒胸臆,还能做到欣赏、谦虚、友善吗?这就需要有同情
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评分It makes a lot more sense when you have enough life experience. No wonder this is the bible of dealing with people.
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