The award-winning PostSecret project's most profound and stunning postcards to date For the past three years Frank Warren has invited people of all backgrounds and nationalities to send him creatively decorated postcards bearing secrets they have never before revealed. He has shared these PostSecrets on his award-winning blog, www.PostSecret.com, in an internationally traveling art exhibit, and in three electrifying books: the bestselling PostSecret, My Secret, and The Secret Lives of Men and Women. Now, in his most extraordinary book yet, Warren again delves into our collective confessions, presenting a never-before-seen selection of provocative and moving PostSecrets. A Lifetime of Secrets lays bare our private fears, hopes, regrets, and desires, from people as young as eight and as old as eighty. From painful admissions of infidelity to breathtaking revelations and endearing sentiments, Warren's latest collection will shock and move readers of every age, revealing secrets that have haunted their creators for a lifetime. Six PostSecrets from A Lifetime of Secrets Here are six of the PostSecrets included in A Lifetime of Secrets , and never before seen online. Click on each image to see a larger version. Frank Warren's Introduction to A Lifetime of Secrets When I told my father I was collecting secrets from strangers for an art project, he didn’t know what to think. I tried to explain how the thousands of secrets that had been mailed to me were more than mere confessions. They could be beautiful, funny, sorrowful, inspiring. "But, Frank," he asked, "why are you soliciting secrets from strangers, and why would anyone tell you a real secret?" I invited my father to fly out for a PostSecret art exhibit in Washington, D.C., where hundreds of the postcards were on display. More than 15,000 people came to see the secrets, and my father was there, day after day, to hear many of their transformative stories. Some people told me they recognized a hidden part of themselves on a stranger’s postcard. Others shared personal experiences of how talking about a painful secret had helped heal a lifelong relationship. The exhibit came to an end and I took my father back to the airport to catch a red-eye flight home. During our drive we passed through a long dark stretch of highway when my father broke the silence by asking me, "Do you want to know my secret?" He bravely recounted a traumatic childhood experience. When he finished, we had a true talk that gave me a richer understanding of my father and recast our relationship. • • • For A Lifetime of Secrets , the fourth PostSecret book, I've selected postcards that show how secrets can reveal a momentary impulse or haunt us for decades and arranged them by age to follow the common journey we all take through childhood, adolescence, adulthood, maturity. Stretched over a full lifespan, the secrets expose the meaningful ways we change over time, and the surprising ways we don't. The postcards narrate childhood stories that have never been spoken; they voice the guarded confessions of our parents and grandparents. They confirm that our rich interior lives are not defined by how old we are, and that with aging comes not only loss but also the possibility of grace and wisdom. The following two secrets arrived in my mailbox the same week. The postmarks on each card were different, but when I posted them together on the PostSecret website (www.postsecret.com) they seemed as though they could have been written by the same person at two different points in her life. I am a junior in high school. I have good friends and a loving family. I am smart. I am a good athlete and musician. But I would trade all that in if it meant I would be beautiful. I spent my high school years believing I was UGLY. I just went through a photo album that had pictures of me over the last 20 years. Turns out I was/am kind of cute. No more wasting time on thinking otherwise. • • • When I give PostSecret presentations at college campuses, my hope is that people I have never met will be inspired to change their lives through the secrets and stories being shared. Not long ago, at one of my talks, it was my life that was changed, and the secret that inspired me came from a stranger in the front row. I began my presentation by handing out blank postcards to everyone in the auditorium. I invited each person to anonymously write down a secret on a card and then pass it on. For the next hour, the postcards circulated and were read silently multiple times. At the end of my talk, I asked if anyone would like to stand and read the secret they were holding at that moment. A man in the front row stood up and haltingly read: I wish I could apologize to my younger brother for the way I treated him growing up. He sat down and exchanged a long look with the young man next to him. After more volunteers read aloud some of the other secrets that had been passed around, I collected all the cards. The man in the front row handed me the postcard he had read from, and the two men walked out together. His postcard was blank. I have witnessed many times how the courage of sharing a secret can be contagious. When I realized that the man had been pretending to read someone else’s secret and that the person he had left with was likely his brother, I was inspired. Growing up, I was not an ideal older brother. As an adult, I have wished for an opportunity to apologize for some of my actions but did not want to open old wounds. I have not shared this secret with my brother . . . until now. --Frank Warren
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读完这本书,我有一种强烈的冲动,想立刻和作者约个下午茶,听他/她讲述创作时的心路历程。叙事者对于人物心理的解剖细致入微,简直到了令人咋舌的地步。他/她似乎有一种超能力,能精准捕捉到人类思维中最隐秘、最矛盾的角落,然后用一种近乎冷峻的客观笔触将其剖开。举例来说,书中描绘的两位主要人物之间的互动,那种看似和谐实则暗流涌动的张力,让人看得手心冒汗。作者很少使用直接的心理描写,而是通过对话的停顿、眼神的闪躲、乃至一个不经意的肢体动作来暗示一切。这种“少即是多”的表达方式,极大地考验了读者的解读能力,也成就了这本书的深度。我必须承认,有些段落我需要放慢速度,甚至回溯重读好几遍,才能真正理解角色在那一刻的真实动机。这本书更像是一份精密的心理学案例研究,只不过包裹在引人入胜的故事外衣之下。它成功地挑战了我对传统叙事结构的认知,让我意识到,有时候,未说出口的话,比喊出来的话更有力量。
评分坦白说,这本书的基调是沉郁而内敛的,它不提供廉价的安慰或快速的解决方案。它直面了人性的复杂与灰色地带,毫不留情地揭示了选择的代价。我特别欣赏作者在处理道德困境时的那种克制与平衡。书中没有绝对的英雄或纯粹的恶棍,只有一群在特定压力下做出挣扎的个体。这种对“两难境地”的深刻洞察,让这本书拥有了经久不衰的探讨价值。每一次重读,我似乎都能从不同的角色身上看到自己或身边人的影子,这便是它真正力量的来源——它逼迫你审视自己的立场和底线。它不是一本读完就可以束之高阁的书,它更像是一块试金石,在你合上书本后,仍然会在脑海中持续发酵,引发关于责任、原谅与遗忘的无尽思考。这是一部需要耐心、更需要共情的作品,它给予读者的回报,是远超娱乐层面的精神滋养。
评分我阅读这本书的体验,与阅读大多数畅销小说截然不同,它更像是一次对特定地域文化的深入田野考察。作者对环境的描绘简直达到了“感官入侵”的程度。你几乎可以闻到空气中弥漫的潮湿气味,听到远处传来的钟声,甚至能感受到脚下泥土的粗粝感。这种环境的“实体感”极大地增强了故事的真实性,使得角色的命运似乎与他们所处的地理环境紧密相连,无法分割。书中的每一个场景都像是一张被精心冲洗过的老照片,色彩浓郁,细节丰富。这种对“地方性”的执着,让读者仿佛真正地被传送到了那个特定的时空背景下。如果说情节推动了故事,那么环境的塑造则塑造了灵魂。我尤其欣赏作者如何将地方的民间传说、历史遗迹巧妙地融入日常对话,使其自然而然地成为角色世界观的一部分,而不是生硬的背景板介绍。对于那些渴望从阅读中获得“逃离现实”体验的人来说,这本书提供的“逃离”是向内挖掘,是深入到一个你从未去过的、但却真实存在过的世界。
评分这本书的叙事节奏简直像老式机械钟的摆锤,稳定而精确,带着一种令人安心的旧世界魅力。我尤其欣赏作者是如何在看似平淡的日常描摹中,巧妙地编织进那些细微的情感波澜。那种笔触,不是那种刻意渲染的戏剧性,而是像清晨露水慢慢蒸发,不着痕迹地改变了整个画面的质感。我花了很长时间才完全沉浸进去,因为它需要你放下对快节奏情节的期待,转而关注人物内心世界的微妙变化。比如说,主角对一个旧物件的执着,初读时觉得有些多余,但读到后半段才恍然大悟,那物件承载的重量远远超出了它本身的价值,是作者高超的“伏笔”艺术的体现。文字功底扎实得令人敬佩,很多句子读起来就像精心打磨过的宝石,光影流转,值得反复玩味。如果你期待的是那种情节跌宕起伏、一页不读就会错过关键信息的作品,那么这本书可能会让你觉得有些“慢”。但对我而言,这种沉浸式的、近乎冥想的阅读体验,恰恰是它最大的魅力所在。它不是提供一个故事,而是邀请你一起生活在那段时光里,感受那些不曾言说的酸楚与甘甜。
评分这部作品的结构设计简直是一场建筑学上的奇迹。它不是线性的,更像是一个多维度的迷宫,每个章节都像是一个独立的房间,但当你走到尽头,你会发现所有的“房间”其实都以某种看不见的方式相互连接。我特别喜欢作者在时间线上玩的花样,那种看似随机跳跃,实则精心校准的年代交错,让信息如同拼图碎片一样慢慢落入正确的位置。这种叙事手法,使得“真相”的揭示过程充满了智力上的愉悦。我不是那种喜欢做笔记的读者,但在这本书面前,我几次忍不住拿起笔,试图画出人物关系图和时间轴的相互映射。最令人惊喜的是,当最终的画面拼凑完整时,它带来的冲击力远非线性叙事所能比拟。它不是一个简单的“反转”,而是一种对读者先前所有理解的颠覆和重构。阅读过程就像是进行一场高强度的智力体操,既耗费脑力,又带来了巨大的成就感。这本书绝对值得被归类为叙事实验的杰作。
评分talked with Chunzi about PostSecret and surprisingly found we have this book in our school's library. Reminds me of Postcrossing somewhat...tho irrelevant maybe.
评分看过这本后也在postcrossing上玩过
评分看过这本后也在postcrossing上玩过
评分看过这本后也在postcrossing上玩过
评分talked with Chunzi about PostSecret and surprisingly found we have this book in our school's library. Reminds me of Postcrossing somewhat...tho irrelevant maybe.
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