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发表于2025-04-25
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In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married. They have children. Society tells us this is the end of the story. In fact, it is only the beginning.
From the author of Essays in Love comes the long-awaited and beguiling sequel, which charts the complex and intricate course of a long-term relationship.
We all know the headiness and excitement of love’s early days, but what can be expected over a shared lifetime? We follow our couple – Rabih and Kristen – from the first flush of infatuation through to inevitable disenchantments and then onto the freedom and insights of maturity. The Course of Love is a novel that explores not so much the start of love, as its maintenance over time; the way our ideals bend and reform under the pressures of an average existence, and the magnificent, sometimes frightening, developments we can make as we slowly realise that love is in essence a skill we need to learn rather than an enthusiasm we simply experience.
Playful, wise, and profoundly moving, The Course of Love is an unparalleled meditation on modern relationships —and a delightful return to the novel for Alain, more than 20 years after Essays in Love.
Alain de Botton was born in Zurich, Switzerland in 1969 and now lives in London. He is a writer of essayistic books that have been described as a ‘philosophy of everyday life.’ He’s written on love, travel, architecture and literature. His books have been bestsellers in 30 countries.
Alain also started and helps to run a school in London called The School of Life, dedicated to a new vision of education. Alain’s latest book will be published in April 2016 and is titled The Course of Love.
Alain started writing at a young age. His first book, Essays in Love [titled On Love in the US], was published when he was twenty-three.
很喜欢Alain de Botton这个叨叨王,这本里也有很多到位的道理,但是这本书,它整体就是平庸,完全没有20年前出道时那本essays in love的轻盈。
评分浪漫不等于爱情,爱情不等于婚姻。关系的维系是门学问,只是人们不愿或懒得去保持理性对待。 这本书读得有些吃力,很多道理于我来说非常theoretical,理解的程度蜻蜓点水。读到中间部分一度对婚姻这个概念产生了极度厌恶,如果抛开物质层面的被迫选择,我实在想不通人究竟为什么要结婚。不过看到最后,还是多少能够理解那些选择了婚姻的人;失望是常态,但那些片刻的幸福似乎又让一切变得值得。也不知道这些理解对不对,打算过几年再来读一遍。
评分There is no such person over the long term. We are too varied and peculiar....
评分我是有多绝望才去买了这种情感指南
评分有点鸡肋。可能因为我已经比较熟悉他的爱情观了,所以没有什么新鲜感。他在YouTube的School of Life很好。His delivery on stage is better than his writing.
总觉得作者在我的房间的阴暗小角落装了一个监控器。又或是在我隐蔽的心底。三年来在不稳定的工作,矛盾冲突爆发的家庭生活,子女教育和夫妻关系里撕裂拉扯。青年时代开始崇尚的个人主义和完美主义日益沉淀,让浪漫主义婚姻观多年来扎根于心。于是在日复一日的纷杂争吵后,总会...
评分我对于爱情的了解,在谈恋爱之前只有浅薄的认识。阅读和观影经验塑造了我对爱情浪漫主义式的想象。以为两个人在一起、相爱了,就能永远在一起。直到恋爱后,才发觉这种想法是多么地无知。爱情是两个人相互间的事情,不是一个人有爱就行了,而且爱虽然是和谐关系的基础,但只有...
评分总觉得作者在我的房间的阴暗小角落装了一个监控器。又或是在我隐蔽的心底。三年来在不稳定的工作,矛盾冲突爆发的家庭生活,子女教育和夫妻关系里撕裂拉扯。青年时代开始崇尚的个人主义和完美主义日益沉淀,让浪漫主义婚姻观多年来扎根于心。于是在日复一日的纷杂争吵后,总会...
评分 评分从『浪漫笔记』到『爱的进化论』,阿兰•德波顿从未让我们失望。中间二十多年,似乎也见证了他本人爱情观的进化。当然,不变的是对人性的体察和宽容,对世界的遗憾与无奈。 这世界上没有什么无法从逻辑角度去分析的事情,除了爱情,否则就不会有那么多文学艺术作品去表现它。...
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