Popular marriage counselor and seminar leader John Gray provides a unique, practical and proven way for men and women to communicate and relate better by acknowledging the differences between them.
Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to earth and amnesia set in: they forgot they were from different planets.
Using this metaphor to illustrate the commonly occurring conflicts between men and women, Gray explains how these differences can come between the sexes and prohibit mutually fulfilling loving relationships. Based on years of successful counseling of couples, he gives advice on how to counteract these differences in communication styles, emotional needs and modes of behavior to promote a greater understanding between individual partners. Gray shows how men and women react differently in conversation and how their relationships are affected by male intimacy cycles ("get close", "back off"), and female self-esteem fluctuations ("I'm okay", "I'm not okay"). He encourages readers to accept the other gender's particular way of expressing love, and helps men and women learn how to fulfill each other's emotional needs.
With practical suggestions on how to reduce conflict, crucial information on how to interpret a partner's behavior and methods for preventing emotional "trash from the past" from invading new relationships, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a valuable tool for couples who want to develop deeper and more satisfying relationships with their partners.
约翰·格雷,心理学博士,国际知名的人际关系和情感问题专家。他继《男人来自火星,女人来自金星》轰动全球后,陆续又推出了三本畅销世界的图书,分别是:《男人约会往北,女人约会往南》、《男人进卧室向左,女人进卧室向右》和《火星人的秘密食谱,金重人的健康法则》。现在,约翰·格雷被誉为世界上最著名的两性情感问题专家。他同妻子及3个孩子一道,居住在美国加利福尼亚北部。
这个世界上,万千的生物,有了男人和女人,生活定是波澜起伏,万千风采。 光男男女女之间这些事,就够多少人伤脑筋,够多少人写故事了。 我看这本书的时候,真是越看越觉得作者了不起。 也感叹美国商品经济下的运作模式。 其实,这本书,归根结底就可以用几个简单的词来解释如...
评分如果男人来自火星,女人来自金星,男人去找女人,肯定是打印一份卫星导航去。如果反过来,女人找男人,你最好在她的飞行器上装部电话,让她边飞边问路。最后说不定双方都找错,大家一起跑到月球上会面。 晚上给学生上中文课,学生Jim说:“我最喜欢讲的话是‘没问题。’”他说...
评分再不写我的手就要烧掉了。这么多年过去,我还是很钟爱闺蜜收到的某封情书的第一句。我艳羡着,只期待有一天有一个人,为我而来,为我而书写,万言情书。 书架上有很多很多读了一部分的书,摞起来差不多有半米高。曾一度认为自己有intimacy problem,现在想想只是我想逃避硬应对...
评分再不写我的手就要烧掉了。这么多年过去,我还是很钟爱闺蜜收到的某封情书的第一句。我艳羡着,只期待有一天有一个人,为我而来,为我而书写,万言情书。 书架上有很多很多读了一部分的书,摞起来差不多有半米高。曾一度认为自己有intimacy problem,现在想想只是我想逃避硬应对...
评分男人有问题的时候陷入沉默 女人则需要倾诉 男人爱的方式是给予以获得成就感 女人则需要照顾和体贴获得安全感 取悦男人要善用感激 取悦女人则需要关心和询问 通篇下来 无外乎把这些掰碎了讲或者衍生去谈
虽然只是大致翻了下。。。先入为主不太待见这个。。。
评分爱情算是门经验科学吧。书本只能解决你认识论上的不足,并没有提供特定环境下的应答方案。倒想看看一些提高解读特定环境能力的书。
评分警惕刻板印象
评分可以冠之以“心理”之名,不过冠之以“心理学”之名是否妥当仍有待商榷……男人和女人是永远的话题,至于沟通那已是另外一个故事……
评分。。。真搞不懂为毛要去看这书。当年受半粒米的影响吧。
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