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1. Mygoodness! 2 1 can't wait to see it 3. I'mscared!
4. Great! 5 Excellent! 6. I'm so excited!
7. You are wonderful! 8. How did you do it? 9. Marvellous!
10. What a surprise! 11. You are kidding me! 12. You look great!
13. We made it! 14. That's amazing! 15. That's crazy!
2. Disappointment/Sorrow/Helplessness
16.1 can't believe it! 17. It's unfair! 18.1 feel bad.
19.1'm fed up. 20. 1 just can't take it! 21.1've had enough.
22.1 wish 1 knew. 23. It's hopeless 24.1'm feeling down
25.1'm very disappointed 26. 1 hate to say it,... 27. Sad to say,
28.Why me? 29 It's not good enough 30. Everything's
wrong!
3. EncouragementyComfortyConcern (Bfill ISHS. ff)
31.Cheer up! 32. Don'tworryaboutthat 33. Don't panic!
34. Don't look back 35. I've every confidence 36. Things will tumin you out fine.
37. You'll get used to it 38. Relax! 39. You never know
40. Just try your best 41. 1 sympathize with you 42. Take it easy!
43. Don't push 44. Don't give up! 45. It's not the end of
yourself too hard the world
4. Regret/Gratitude
46.1'm sorry to hear that 47 Please forgive me 48. Sorry, I'vemade a mistake.
49. It's all my fault 50. Thanks a lot 51. It's very kind of you
52.1 really appreciate it 53 That's all right 54. You're welcome
55. You've helped me a lot 56 1 wish 1 could help 57. 1 should have wamedyou.
58. Don't mention it 59. It's my pleasure 60. Forget it!
5. Request
61. Leave me alone, please!
64. Pardon, please
67. Do me a favour, please
70. Faster, please!
73. Don't do this to me,
please
62. Give me a break!
65 Don't push me!
63. Let me through,
please!
66. Could you lend me
a hand?
68. Just a moment. 69. Hold it!
71. Would you stop it, please? 72. Don't blow it,
please.
74. Don't make me do it 75. Give me another
chance, please
6. EnquiryYReply
76.What'son your mind? 77. Whodidit?
79. What's up?
80. What did 1 do wrong?
78. Did 1 make myself
clear?
81. What are you
trying to say?
82. What's your story? 83. You don't mean it, do you? 84.1'll see if 1 can do
it.
85. Nothing special 86 I'll try my best 87.I'll see about
that.
88. Let me think about it 89. Let me see what 1 can do 90. Let me explain to
you
7. Expressing opinions
91. Easyjob! 92. It's easier said than done. 93. Nobigdeal!
94. 1 guess you're right 95. It'sworthit 96. Nothingnew.
97 Everything's under 98 Noway! 99 I'mafraidnot
control.
100. To tell you the tmth, 101. It's a piece of cake 102. It's all the same
tome.
103.1 dare say, 104. Don't misunderstand me 105. If I'm not
mistaken,
Vlll. Explaining one's own case
106.1 didn't do it. 107. I've got it! 108.1 see.
109. We can manage 110.1'm in good shape 111.1've got no choice
112.1've no idea 113. rmserious 114. I've never heardofthat.
115. You can count on me 116. Notthatlknowof 117.Iknownothingabout it
118. It's not my fault 119. 1 only have myself 120.1've had second
to blame thoughts
8. Criticism/Rebuke
121. It doesn't make
sense at all!
124. What do you think
you are doing?
127. Mind your words!
130.You'lllivetoregretit
133.Don'tmessup!
122. You've gone too far
125. Don't you dare
128. Don'twastemy
time any more.
131. No more excuses!
123. You've got it
wrong.
126.Whafsthematter
with you?
129. Nonsense!
132. You asked for it
9. Suggestion/Advice/Order
134.Letmetry
135. It's time we stopped
137. Get moving! 138. You'd better do it now
140. Do something about it 141. 1 wouldn't do it if 1
were you.
143. Let's give him a big 144. Keep away from them
hand.
146. Take it away from me 147. Think twice
136. May 1 suggest
something new?
139. Let's get started!
142.Let'stalk!
145.Whynot
forgive him?
148.Getitfixed!
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